Hi Guys,
Im looking to get started and would like some advice.
Im Irish, 24 and been living in london for 10 months.
Other than reading Neill Strauss "The Game" about 4 years ago and reading a couple of articles on pick up in magazines etc i have no real experience. Constantly find myself standing on the sidelines in clubs or just drinking with friends while all the girls go home with other guys. After another failed night out last night, and finding myself sitting in watching X factor tonight (without a girl) ive decided i need to put a game together.
Looking for some advice on the approach as this is the big mental block i have.
Thanks,
TIMO DICE

Gday TIMO

Dude you're IRISH, your accent alone should be getting more pussy than you can handle

Just wanted to say you're not alone there mate, I'm two years older than you and I'm willing to bet - even more frustrated!

It seems that most skilled guys say they only really started to improve when they spent time with guys of greater ability, which, in a social context makes perfect sense to me.

Hi Metcalf,
Thanks for the reply. just wondering if you have gone to any seminars etc? Im thinking of looking to sign up next time i hear of one thats in London. Best of luck with your endeavours.
Timo

Hey Timo

I've done programmes but no seminars, they're typically expensive regurgitated web material.

I notice you say your difficulty is with approach, which is where I stall also.

However something I've gleaned from all these programmes is that your real difficulty often isn't what you think it is. In my case I think I'm perfectly capable of approaching, but I don't because of a lack of confidence in being able to 'follow through', and of course the fear of failure.

Hey Timo

Do you sound like Keith Duffy? If you do lay on that accent really tick among these thickle English girls, they freaking love it. Its the equivalent to English accents to Americans as they love it too!

Firstly you need to push yourself to talk to people and not just women, have outside interests other than game so you are a more rounded person. Meet up with guys who are of a higher level than you. Thats better than meeting with guys of your own level who although mean well might not be able to help you.

Have you thought about trying some daygame? It can be just as good as night game but only quieter. Yes there is the stigma that it may feel weird because women aren;t expecting to be hit on, but you will be surprised.

Start off with basics, you can't expect to become a master seducer over night. Have some default lines and openers to use if you get stuck but what I find works for me is just being observant than making situation/funny comments on what I can see!