Hey

I'm a 20 year old AFC student in Manchester who has always been ok with picking up less attractive women but I really want to improve the quality of girl I am picking up. I regularly cock it up even with average looking girls.

I need help and guidance of any willing PUAs in Manchester. All my close friends seem to have little to no trouble picking up hot girls and regularly get laid. I am sometimes embarassed of the girls I take home.

Main issue is with confidence in general - not just with women.

Be grateful for anything you can help me with.

Cheers,

Mr Fox

Why would you take someone home if you're embarrassed about taking them home?

Well, I get drunk (drinking is the window to my confidence) and then take them home. A lay is a lay - the usual train of thought. Have girls who will come over now and again. Not attracted to any of them and want to be able to be meet, date and pick up attractive women.

Essentially, I will pick easy targets because of my higher chance of success.

Hey man, welcome to the boards. This forum is one of the friendliest i've come across, so don't be sky & get involved. Quite a few of the guys here are based in Manchester, so you shouldn't be short of a wing or two.

Sky.

Thanks, man. I've become so deeply intrigued by the PUA community and techniques that I just want to learn more and more, taking that which I learn or works for me into other areas of my life other than picking up women.

That's really stupid logic, a lay is a lay? That is certainly true but a lay isn't a lay you want.

You either want them or you don't, if you're not attracted to someone you really shouldn't be taking them home and fucking them. First problem, seek girls you want, have some standards.

I'm loving the influx of Mancs at the moment

Of course it's a stupid logic. But if you lack confidence approaching attractive girls - what else can you do? Get confidence right and learn how to approach them. Hence why I'm here.

You speak of taking these girls home as something you don't want to do.
If you don't want to do something, don't do it.
If you did want to do them, don't be embarrassed or feel bad about it.
Don't judge your self worth against the looks of a girl you can or can't get.
Don't judge your self worth against what other people think of the girls you get with.

WANK! It’s a lot better than having sex with ugly girls and lowering your value! TREAT THE GIRLS YOU’RE ATTRACTED TO THE SAME WAY YOU WOULD TREAT THE UGLIER GIRLS! and looks shouldn’t be the only thing you go for, i find that attractive woman can be much less attractive to me if their personality is boring and dull. If you feel you can do better inside and really believe it, then you will. But you must believe it, girls can sense it.