Hey Guys,

I hope you’re all good….

I’m Adam, 34 and currently living back in my hometown of Oxford. I’ve been studying the art of the pick up for a little over a year now. What merely began as curious fascination has now become somewhat of a guilty pleasure. I love women and I love to make women feel good! I’ve always had a natural social ability and never considered myself to be a player. I do okay and I’ve got a pretty good track record. Not long ago I thought it was my time to settle down I met what I thought was a really cool chick but she turned out to be the monster we met on a dating site and before I knew it we were living together with her kid from a previous relationship two cats, a mountain of debt and a pit of depression… I wasn’t settling down I was settling… We broke up and she got everything including a massive chunk of the trust that I’d stupidly always had in women. I’ve been back out there ever since I’ve dated a few chicks but the dating game has changed of late and women are just becoming even more shallow and calculated than they ever were, it’s a jungle out there so it’s time I started hanging out with the lions….

Happy hunting
Adam Goodtime.

Hey Adam

Sorry to hear about that but welcome to the forum. I live near oxford and often sarge ther. We are thesame age too. Pm me.


Tony

You're in the wrong place to be doing this, I admit that your previous relationship showed little consideration towards you, but change your belief that 'All women are shallow'.

Reading back my first post which I composed at stupid o’clock this morning shortly after registering, I can see why I may have come across feeling a bit sorry for myself as being somewhat bitter towards women and that really wasn’t my intention and when I said women are becoming more shallow than they ever were, I meant in the sense of what they look for in a man initially. I wasn’t just referring to my last relationship more the girls I’ve met since then, the last thing I want right now is another relationship I just want to have some fun but I always end up getting far too involved far too soon and that’s what I really need to work on…

'men who like women are liked by women' - Zan Perrion