well, i was here roughly a year ago... then, without even sargeing, a pretty amazing girl came to me.
I fell into the relationship, and having already had the experience with women i had, i knew this one was different.
Fast forward a year, the commitment scared me far too much, i was scared i'd lose any skills i had learned being a pua, and i ended up flirting with other girls, not cheating, but enough that when she found out, it caused enough friction for me to end it.
Now things may work out, im still not sure if i want it to or not, but i figured i'd get back into the scene a little, and just see what happens with her, no point waiting around for something that may never happen.

Now maybe i seem like an afc after all that, but im not going to explain myself over it, we'll see what happens, and i look forward to refreshing myself on all of this

So you're still in the relationship, but guna focus on improving PUA skills?

"Just see what happens with her" is a line I've previously used for one of my exs, when I was too scared to just end it already. You clearly aren't happy with her. Put her out of her misery.

Anyways where in UK are you?

Me reading this is the funniest thing that ever happened in Manchester.


Peace,

kowalski

PUA is like riding a bike

nah, im not with her right now, but things may change, im not happy atm but things were literally perfect... anyway, less of the soppy bullshit.
Kowalski, dont be a douche its just one of those stupid insecurities where you worry you'll lose it if your in a relationship too long, im sure im not the only one!

And yeah, i guess it is, im surprised i remember most of the jargon! well i might be out sargeing tomorrow night, we'll see how rusty i am then.

If your relationship is going well why you have to worry about loosing your "PUA skills".

i dont think this is something that needs much explaining, but i'll go ahead and do it anyway.

You're with your gf, you look around the restaurant and theres a three-set in the corner, and admittedly, one is better looking than the girl you are with.
Now you start thinking about how comfortable you have got in the relationship, how you sometimes (rarely) do things you wouldnt have done for any girl before, and start thinking about how you used to be.
You start wondering if you could still go over, start a conversation, and close, if you could isolate that one in the blue dress...
Then you look back at the gf, and as much as you love her and whatever else, you miss that thrill of the chase, the novelty of someone new.

This happened to me a few times, as with chances cropping up that i could have cheated, could have ran some game on a barmaid and got somewhere, but i never did. and in the end, i just decided to try and see if i could still number close.

Im not going to bother with replys telling me im a dick for doing it, its happened now, and im not going to go chasing after the girl just for it to be awkward again, i'll go on a few dates with her again, see if things start working out, and if they dont, im still confident enough not to be an afc again

I'm not calling you dick or asking you to explain yourself. I just wanted more clarification as I wasn't sure what exactly you are looking for(which is cleared now).

I know you werent amit, but i know there are always some people who just love to slate (Y)

i was you 3 years ago

i destroyed the person i loved and in doing it i destroyed myself
never again

but its a lesson youve got to learn to move on in life its part of growing up