Yes, im talking about my bastard ex girfriend again....even though i know you guys are sick hearing about her.

I could kill her.

She had made all these demands that i get a job & new place & cut down drinking etc etc. I have been applying for tons of jobs & trying to get all my shit sorted out.

I'd like to say i gave her space but it was actually her telling me to stop contacting her. If two people are having a baby, they should be communicating.


Anyway, it makes sense why she didnt want contact, cos the other night my mate called to my house to tell me he'd heard she was back together with one of her other violent, control freak, bully ex boyfriends.

My mate drove about 50 yards from my house into town when i spotted them sitting together in his car...the cheek of it, she wont talk to me at all, but will sit 50 yards from my house!!!

I got my mate to drive around town again & i got out to try & talk to her, the guy started the car ready to drive off but i opened her door & asked her what was going on, she told me to fuck off, closed the door & gave me the finger before they drove off.

I text her & said its obvious she was back with him & asked what the arrangements were going to be for me to see my child. She then phoned & told me i would see him once a week that her mum will bring him to my sisters house or somewhere.

Its not about getting back with her or anything. But i am being treated like shit & made to look stupid. She is pushing me to the absolute limit & im at breaking point.

Im fucking angry to say the least. This other guy is fucked up in the head & used to hit her & not allow her out to see friends etc, he is gunna try to play daddy to MY son!!!!

Ive spoke to my solicitor & he told me to wait & see what happens when he is born, & if she continues to be a bitch then we go through the courts. But i want more than a few hours a week!!!

She is a tramp & im sure she has fucked tons of guys while pregnant, just to spite me.

The other guy is in big trouble, i have a personal beef with him now & i will have revenge on him for sleeping with her while she carries my kid, he will see that as a "one up" on me so i will have the last laugh on this, he's in BIG trouble.

She deserves to suffer hurt & pain for everything she has put me through. I feel like i could kill her & her new ex boyfriend.


Im not even asking for advice here, but if you wanna say something work away.

relax dan

Dan mate, you are playing a game that you can't win. The more you gonna try to contact her the more she will push you away. I know it sucks that she is pregnant with your child and shagging other guys . But reality is you made your bed. Be strong and move on she made it clear that you can see your son once a week, now only contact her when you have genuine reason.

Just my 2 cents.

Im trying to.

But its not easy when ive got the likes of her new ex boyfriend driving around close to my house & taunting me.

Everything keeps getting worse & im gunna look like a fool if i dont step up & do something, even though i know it would only be a short term fix for my anger, it wont help in the long term, but im being provoked.

Telling you to chill out, calm down or stop being angry would be like telling ketchup not to be red.

So here is some advice I hope will be useful:

1) If you're going to get revenge, which by the way, will not make you feel better, do not get caught. I have no idea on forensics and assault charges. But get someone else to do it, or have a stable alibi on the night?

2) Drop this whole ideology about sex with your baby inside her. You cannot change the uncontrollable. You cannot lock her up for a year. This is negative feelings that is guna make you feel shit and turn to more drugs/booze. Instead. Stop thinking about the baby inside her. I bet my parents were fucking when I was unborn. Who cares. Obviously I don't have a pregnant ex girlfriend so I cannot comprehend your feelings, but try for your own sake to turn this rage into something positive.

3) Have sex with her sister.

4) If you actually want more custody you're guna have to be awesome in court, get a decent job and house and be able to provide better than she can.. if possible get evidence that she's a fucking nut job..

Nobody thinks you are a fool.
Even if they do, this doesn't change your life. Rise above it

Also, you are not being provoked. You think you are being provoked because you feel threatened. Drop your ego. Ego is bad. Fuck his mum or something.

Actually I quite like to hear how it's going mate, that you are still alive and there is progress however small it seems

Don't, you don't need PU in prison, just vaseline

I agree.

This is progress as she said before that you couldnt see your kid! give it time, patience and try a non-violent route as she will have to allow you an extended period with your child such as a weekend and week long holidays

It might seem like you're at breaking point but ignore her and keep you baby in mind. If you can play the game (no matter how stupid whatever game it is) then she cannot deny your reasonable requests as a father!

I'm going to use a phrase that works wonders in my profession
to put it bluntly, if she plays the bitch, winds you up and goes to extremes of dating violent guys who not necessarily abuse her but appear to put her and her child in harms way, then you can use that against her in legal proceedings to either win full custody or whatever you feel best.

I know you want to react, but by not taking immediate action, whatever course you choose further down the line will be much more powerful

Ive got some good things going for me, & i will have more when i get a job etc.

You say you’re talking to your ex how can she do this with this guys cock in her mouth.

This isn’t helping is it?

Seriously, woman tend to go for the bad boys I could spend pages explaining the intricacies of this if you want more info I recommend you read, Bad Boys by Carole Lieberman.

Alternatively, I’ll explain it in one sentence regardless of whether they beat the shit out them or not, women love a challenge and a bad boy is generally so absorbed in himself that he presents a huge fucking challenge to any woman. You can achieve the same result without beating the crap out of girls by just being that challenge.

Finally, picking up on al_phaD’s advice fuck her sister in the arse that might give you short term revenge. Although, you've said she's cute and hard to game its not an impossiblity. Okay I'm kidding again.

The single best way to get revenge on her is get your life together get a job, get the life you deserve have women in it (lots), she’ll fucking hate you for it.

I don’t want to comment on the kid I don’t know enough but I sure she’ll do her best for your child regardless of the other shit.

Good luck mate I imagine its always going to be tough when ther is a kid involved just don't end up on Jeremy Kyle

I am definitely being provoked & taunted. My flat overlooks a car park beside the town center. Last night when i got back i seen this guy driving around town before i entered the building (my flat is on the other side,the back of the building) when i get in & look out the window, im 90% sure i see my ex walking through the car park with another girl. One minute later the guy drives in in his car & starts slowly driving around & staring up at me etc.

I mite text the slut & ask her if she will stop these games that ive suffered enough.

She probably wont though.