Hi Guys,


Total newcomer here, so bare with me . . . . . . .


I dont really have the time at the moment to go onto an NLP course, and as Sync already noted in his sticky, I should avoid broad NLP courses that are not specifically catered to this area. I was just wondering, is there any PUA specific material that you fine peeps would recommend that would help wet my appetite and at least help me garner a basic understanding of this area? I'm not naive enough to think there is any "quick path" (christ . . . see how many star wars jedi references I throw in here), but If I ever do pluck up the courage to find a mentor in this area, I would at least like to feel confident enough that I have a basic grasp of the subject. Many thanks in advance.

I agree, if anyone can recognise a Jedi reference, it’s Jesus, however, if your appetite was any whetter, you'd be shitting razors

Ross Jeffries is the guy who first put NLP and Seduction on the same plate and his is the most thorough menu of uses, however, he does have something of a reputation for linguistically smashing skulls. Obviously, the application of the tool is your own responsibility and will ultimately reveal your intentions. Add to Google and lightly pepper in “NLP” and “Seduction” to get enough articles to scrum yourself to bursting.

However, before you expend precious time and energy seeking and preparing ingredients, an important question might be, "At what point do I feel confident that I have achieved a basic grasp of the subject?”

“When I can…..”

Your answer will clarify what you actually want to eat, how much energy is actually worth putting into preparing this meal, when you’ve decided that you’re fed and if you’re that hungry in the first place.

A crafty snack might be instead to set time aside each day to sit quietly and practise, remembering the quality of, and then, lengthening the time you can, spin in your body feelings of calm, power, playfulness and joy. Your most magic words and actions will flow effortlessly from here.

You’re doing it already.

Yum.

I would recommend 3 books:

The Game – Neil Strauss
The Rules of the Game – Neil Strauss
The Mystery Method – Mystery

All available through amazon start here once you get these down then you will be ready to move onto Ross Jeffries and NLP/Seduction.

Double O,
I would add to that Tony Clink's "The Layguide." Sort of combines MM with SS.

Steve P and Hypnotica the Masterfull Inner game gurus. They use powerfull language patterns and deep trance phenomenon to effect change at deep deep level within you.

LMAO

errr Double O none of those books are about NLP. WTF!


The first book I read on NLP was 'Frogs into Princes' by Grinder and Bandler.

I'm a bit of a research monkey so like to start at the begining. This was the first book ever written on the subject, and is by the guys who created / discovered it. It's actually a transcript of one of their early seminars. It's still the best thing I've read on the subject.


Peace

If Frogs is the best thing you've read on the subject of NLP that tells me that you have obviously not read any other book on NLP, plain and simple. You certainly haven't read NLP: The New Technology of Acheivement, or The User's Manual for the Brain. I would even argue that Unlimited Power provides a better overview. Also, there are NLP techniques/exercises as part of Rules of the Game. Although I believe that anybody on this forum would benefit greatly from a practitioner training, I think they are more interested in the applications to seduction than an all out course on NLP.

I wold recommend Introducing NLP by Joseph O'Conner and Josh Seymour. Its a complete introduction to the subject without any of the fluff.

I didn't enjoy, or learn from, reading NLP: The New Technology of Achievement.

Peace

That's sad because it is an amazing book. There are some truly excellent exercises in there to improve inner game.