We all know how important being in state is for pickup. anyone got any good concrete ways of getting that state where everything turns into gold when you need it ? dosent seem to be much around the net on this subject..

Building up slowly works for me as it lasts longer.

Try and get a few good things going for you that day, then have some positive interactions with some people (doesnt have to be girls).

Relax and try to feel comfortable with yourself, then push up the interactions to sets etc...

Let us know how you get on too. Xxx

P.s And don’t worry if you cant get into state all the time, you don’t want to become an addict..

I found if you be sociable throughout the day to anyone guys and girls that helps. Having a laugh with someone behind a till gets you in the state of talking to strangers and you'll make their day more enjoyable than just serving another random silent face.

Problem is you may have been secluded most of the day, so maybe you're out that evening. The best way to get into state is approach.

Now for the shocker, getting into state IS NOT IMPORTANT! Thats right! Just approach. In fact your best approaches are when you're out of state! Try it. The point is, don't think of "state" when you're out. If you're out with your wings have fun too. The biggest factor in your success is to approach. FUCK STATE!

Sapmi's advice comes from much experience. He went down that road. Fighting state, happy when you've got it sad when you haven't. Don't do it. It is the fate of Sisyphus: Sisyphus

As has been said the woo style states we are usually refering to are awesome when you are in them but essentially this style of pick-up is creating state junkies. Being a state junky is infinitely better than being a reactions junky, but still not where you want to be.

If you're new to this go out and get in state a few times, it'll give you valuable reference experiences. Just don't get addicted.

The quickest way to get in state is to just do something so stupid that your normal boundaries of pride and shame are smashed to pieces. Singing The Monkees at the top of your voice in the street for example. You can't do that and maintain your confining notions of pride and shame. When they are gone you are free and it's game on!


Peace,

kowalski

The easiest way to create state?

Dont fake it.

Create a life that YOU want to live. If you want to be fireman, do so. If you want to live in a caravan, do so. Do the things in your life that make it rich and full of enjoyment. Be social, be family orientated, take part in "events" out side of your ecosystem.

What happens then?

Your always in state!

If at this point in time you spend all day sat un your pants playing xbox and wanking to porn. Then when you go out into a club, do you really think your just going to "snap" into state? Maybe for a moment, a breif glipse in to what could be. But if you spend most of your time being unsociable when you go out acting all "high enegery pick up dude" it looks fake. Woman can tell, shit, I can tell.

I am not saying your like this dude, I am just giving my two cents.

Instead of looking for state quick fixes. Look to improve all aspects of your life, then the woman will come to you.

However...

If you ARE looking for a quick fix to glimpse into the matrix, try this forumla:

Acceptance + Right Action = State.

Accept you are currently not in state but dont dwell on it. Take RIGHT ACTION by being pro active - grab the first chick you see and chat away. Hit a few sets - 20 mins later - wallah!

cool answers on this.. not what i was expecting some i agree on others i dont but thanks anyways

words of wisdom !!!

if you dont mind being unhappy, you cant be unhappy much longer

lime in the eye

doing any of the freshprince of bella dances

walking to the bar in slowmotion

getting your mate to clear the dance floor for you to breakdance then go in the middle and simply do a headstand

pretending you recignise some one then seeing how long they will keep talking to you before they give up trying to remember who you are

talking to everyone in a bad russian acsent

meditate before going out

thanks for the input i enjoyed the wisdom but whats a reactions junky ?