Introduction
I often refer to the fact that our evolution shaped our psychology. I am yet to break this down for you all. If you want to know more there are a lot or great books you can read on this subject too numerous to list, I will reference some of the most relevant as we go along.

Here I'll give a basic outline focusing on two key areas. Namely: Why your state will become her state, and, why girls test guys.


Human Evolution
Due to events, the specific detail of which shines no extra light on the matter at hand (mostly because the jungles receded), our primate ancestors moved out of the jungle and onto the plains. We were not physically equipped to cope with this new environment, as it was so different from the one we had evolved in.

This happens to many species all the time. Often they die out. Sometimes there are individuals with specific genetic abnormalities, that manifest themselves as physical differences, and enable them to survive and breed. For example the finches of the Galapagos islands famously developed different beak lengths, shapes and strengths to deal with the specific environmental pressures of the island they lived on (read Darwin's The Origin of Species for more on the basics of evolution).

The environment our ancestors found themselves in was so different to the one we came from. An animal with our physical traits would have needed to evolve so many different physical traits in a short amount of time in order to survive. Far too little time in fact. Meaning they would have died out too had it not been for one thing. Their large brain.

All apes have highly developed abilities to think logically (e.g. recognise patterns, solve problems etc.) and to communicate. It was these, cerebral, qualities that saved us. We were able to survive by:
1. Coming up with ideas.
2. Communicating our ideas to others.
3. Convincing others that our ideas were the best ideas, and would benefit the whole group rather than just ourselves.

There are a few different ways of convincing others that our ideas are the ones everyone should follow.
1. Honestly. They can actually be the best ideas, and we have the ability to adequately communicate this.
2. Dishonestly. We can lie to convince others that our ideas benefit the group, when really they mostly benefit our self.
3. Forcefully. We can make others do what we say through violent dominance.
All 3 methods work. However, the 2nd and 3rd both have an element of risk that the 1st does not.

If we lie to get others to follow our ideas we are in danger of being found out. If we are found out we will either be killed or ostricised from the group, which would result in our death also. If you use force to get others to follow your ideas you are in danger of being physically overthrown by the group if they unite against you. This too will ultimately result in your death.

So the best way to ensure your survival and replication, is to:
1. Come up with the best ideas. Ideas that benefit the whole group not just yourself.
2. Communicate these ideas to others honestly. So that they appreciate that yours are the best ideas, and thus they decide to follow you.

Therefore, this means that a female in order to ensure her own genetic progeny's survival will be looking for the following four qualities.
1. The ability to come up with great ideas.
2. The ability to communicate well.
3. Honesty.
4. Dominance.

Meaning that females of the species needed to develop methods of discovering which males had these qualities. There are a few more qualities that were also important. Certain physical qualities, competitiveness etc. I am not going to discuss these other qualities as they are outside the scope of this essay.


The Sexes
Within the family groups of nearly all species males and females take on very distinct roles. Roles that over millions of years have become part of our genetic makeup. Differences which modern society tries to deny, and calls sexism.

The male human is the protector and significant provider of food or the means for food. Especially where this means leaving the relative safety of the living area. The female human is the carer. They need to ensure that everyone in the family feels good, happy and is healthy, and to maintain a certain level of cleanliness and order within the living area.

In order to fulfil this role succesfully, females needed to develop a highly sensitive method of determining the mood and health of those around her. To this end they developed the skill of empathy. Females evolved to be internally affected by their environment and the people in it. This is why girls have an almost telepathic ability to discern the state of others.

They do this, not by consciously observing macro sized changes in others, as these can easily be controlled by the person they are observing. Female humans have evolved to unconsciously pick up on signals that the people they interact with are unconsciously transmiting. Being aware of the feelings of others, though, is not enough to cause someone to take action to change the way the other feels. Simply knowing that a baby needs comfort will not act as motivation to do something about it.

In order for their awareness of others' emotional states to motivate females to take action, they evolved to actually feel what the other is feeling. So if the baby or father has a negative emotional state so will the female.

The only way to make herself return to a state of relaxed, satisfied happiness is to do anything she can to get the person who is negatively affecting her emotional state to feel relaxed, satisfied and happy. For more on this read Brizendine's The Female Brain



Tying It All Together
This almost telepathic empathy females developed also helped them discern which potential mates are being honest. When you interact with a girl, she will unconsciously follow you into whatever emotional state you are in. She will also observe your conscious behaviours. She will then compare the two. If there is any disparity between the two (e.g. if you are consciously adopting the outward behaviours of a confident, worthy and sexy male, yet internally you feel nervous, unworthy and unattractive), this will make her feel strangely uncomfortable in your presence. She will feel weird and creeped out by you and will not want to mate with you, she will want to end the interaction as soon as possible to stop herself from feeling weird.

She will also test you to see if you have created a veil of self-deceit that enables you to feel that you are a confident, worthy and sexy male. This is the emotional content of acting. When acting a certain role, in order to make it more convincing, we draw upon our emotional history and use our imagination re-assimilate that emotional state (read Stanislavski's An Actor Prepares for more on this). She will actively attempt to knock your confidence, to make you feel unworthy and to make you feel un-sexy. In the community these tactics are known as shit tests, bitch sheilds etc. If she manages to affect your state it shows her that you are weak. At which point you will either walk away from the interaction, or plough on. If you are acting and you plough on, she will now feel a disparity between your emotional state and your conscious display. Which, as before, will make her feel weird and she will try to end the interaction as soon as possible to stop you making her feel uncomfortable.



Using This Knowledge To Our Advantage
When interacting with a girl you should always be thinking how much you want to fuck her and how horny she makes you feel. She will adopt this emotional state. She will start to think that she wants to fuck you and will feel horny too. She will wonder why this is and rationalise it 'This guy is talking to me and I'm starting to feel really horny, like I want to fuck. It must be because I fancy him. God he is so sexy'.
Of course, you can't fake this. She will undoubtedly throw a few tests your way, to try and knock your state, to see if it is real. To find out if you honestly believe you are worthy. If you are simply acting worthy, she will usually succeed in breaking your state. If you trully know that you are a confident, worthy and sexy male, you will pass all tests. She will then; first follow your emotional state into horniness, and then follow your dominant, physical leading (escalation, isolation, extraction) into your bed.

This is a large part of what it means to be a natural, and it demonstrates why a natural is not concerned with what they are going to say. Instead the focus is on having a confident, worthy and sexy manly core that the natural is fully in touch with and freely expresses.

All men have these qualities as the core of who they are. To become a natural is to destroy the ego and put aside the bullshit of your social conditioning. Once this is done you will feel confident, worthy and sexy. The natural does not use rehearsed lines as they will not necessarilly be in congruence with what he is as a man, rehearsed lines are only needed if you lack confidence in what you are about to say. The natural knows that the most congruent thing he can say, and therefore the most confident, worthy and sexiest thing he can say, is the next thing that pops out of his mouth.

Inner game is true game.


Peace

That state you talk of "I wanna f**ck you", "I feel so horny".....while you are interacting with her...............

You're saying with this strong feeling, everything will turn to gold in the interaction. How does one link this strong feeling, to actions, to a result..short of saying to her "I feel horny"....If you feel it strong enough, will it work?

That is a whole different post, or probably two, which I will gladly write up soon for you.

The above is not a complete method. Just an essay on evolutionary psychology, what it means to those learning to be Socially Awesome, why our evolution means that the natural is the best mate, what it is to be a natural (i.e. not simply discarding canned material in favour of improv) and how to utilise this psychology to your advantage.

In short you need 2 more things to make a full method. Which I will definitely post up some time soon.

1. To shut down her logical brain, as this will just get in the way of your escalating sexually.
See my Random Statements of Fact post for a bit of how this works, here:2. You need to physically escalate, isolate and extract. In other words you need to be a dominant male through leading and taking what you want.

I explained this to you, Sapmi, in some detail in Poets' Corner if you recall our discussion there. More to follow.


Peace

Excellent - I'm gonna print this post and read it at my leisure

Bravo Kowalski!

Excellent article man.

I think this is some interesting stuff. Even where there is no evidence for some of it (I don't want to get in to scientific pedantics, but some of the things are very difficult to prove), it is cool that you are going ahead and making progress based on the things we know, and - in the field - the things that work.

Nice-

I'd like to check out the references too - they sound really interesting.

As promised here is the second installment of my musings on evolutionary psychology:
http://www.puaforum.co.uk/consciousn...hology-ii.html



Enjoy!


Peace,

kowalski

I think I missed this the first time round good stuff

You did indeed Tommy-Come-Lately.

I wrote this first Evolutionary Psychology thread back in April, before you were a member.


Peace,

kowalski