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06-12-2010, 02:33 PM
Guess what?
YOU ARE A NATURAL!
Dont tell me you cannot hold a conversation with someone unscripted nor lack a sense of humour and quick wit. You do. I am sure your friends and family think your awesome. To compare yourself to someone else is pointless. You should strive to be the best "piers147" you can possibly be - that is self actualization. If we take your example of Russel Brand, yes he is quite a character and I can defiantly see why woman find him interesting. However, he is the ONLY Russel brand and I would suggest he has worked hard to reach the level of self assurance he is at. You are correct it is the naturals who have the most success, because they are being REAL. They are not pretending to be anything other than themselves.
Dont misunderstand, its easy to say "just be yourself". Well you could be a total prick. In which case you have some things to work out. Confidence in pick up like anything, comes with exposure and practice. There may be a few bad habits you have when chatting up woman, but as long as you look at yourself subjectively and adjust your behavior, you will nail it in the end.
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