Value

We paid attention to things which have value to us. I have this epiphany earlier this evening. I was talking to this timid Japanese girl and an American girl walked past me and I initiate the conversation with her without appologising to Japanese girl. She has no value cos I value confidence and I value English language. Value is the biggest catch on the whole deal. People wants to be in the warm end of the pool, value provides that warmness. There are few values which are common in everybody. This is due to culture, social conditioning and society. These values are unconscious. While others are we choose for ourself, this can be things like traveling, personal independence, self discipline etc.

Value has is a big thing in Pickup. Girls are socially conditioned they are more likely to like a guy who they can co relate to a celebrity, hip hop artist, football player. No matter how good your skills are with women if you don't have value you won't be going far.

So what is value?
Value us something which is precious and important to us. If something or someone give us good emotions and there company is important to us then they have an higher value to us. For instance if you like fishing then when you go to a sports shop all the fishing equipment has value to you whereas for a footballer or cricketer it has no value.

Now to attract women you have to have some kind of value in yourself, now the question is how you will get that?
First of all what does women value in a guy (these are the common value which most women wants in a man)
Confidence
Decisiveness
Social status
Resources
You might have one or all of these values. If you have all these values you are close to become a natural.
But If you don't have these values then what?
Answer to that question is meeting your own personal values, doing something which is important to you, keeps you happy, moves you towards core self, makes you a satisfied individual. Not meeting your values causes an emptiness, which makes you unattractive to women. People think that they can fill this emptiness by outside factors like if they find a girlfriend, shopping , drinking etc.

Most important thing is to find what is important to us and then live up to those values.

I really hate this term value. Many guys label themselves as high or low value according to how they percieve women or are perceived women. Either they have higher or low value than the woman they wish to hook up with. This is completely wrong because we all have the same value and everyone should be treated fairly.

I agree with this.

After looking through a list of txt messages I have received.. I a reply to the girls in order of value.. not in order of when I received the txt or its importance.

This order chances constantly ( if a girl looses value to me or vice versa )

I couldn't agree more Tony, but at the same time I can't think of a better way/term to describe social desirability

I'm not talking about what me and you think. This is the general concept. Humans have limited time and energy so we only want to devote our time on something or someone who has value. I believe in treating every women equally and fairly but I wouldn't shag on who has low value.

Oxymoron much?

I get what you mean though, you treat everybody the same but would only extend sexual relations to those whom match your values in a sexual partner intellectually, physically and emotionally?

Exactly. You can get along well with someone as a friend but that will not necessarily lead towards sex.

With respect, I don't think you fully understand value.
Who would you prefer to fuck, a slim girl with big boobs and who is fun to be around or a dull plain girl? If you value personality and boobs, the former. If simply getting some pussy has more value to you, then perhaps there won't be much difference between the two.

Why do you think football players and boy ands get so much pussy, when a better looking random guy may struggle? Coz some girls value status more.

Value is everywhere. Family time, career, pussy, food, art, computer games all have value to us. Value is the term which describes the scale of what something means to us.

i think this falls down to individual's as some guys criteria may just be..a trophy gf for instance

absolutely. Value is completely subjective. Probably the best example of this is sentimental value.