Right, need some advice.. I am at uni atm and currently living with this girl that I would say is a 9/10. Anyway last year me being an AFC told her how I felt about her an did all the soppy stuff.

Me and her still are really flirty and she always come and kisses me (cheel)etc, the only prob is she does that to most of her guy mates. I have kino'd quite abit with her and we always joke about sleeping in each others bed etc, but nothing comes of it (she hasnt said this to any other guy, however we normally say it during banter). She has also said to my face that she thinks I am hot. I think I am 65% there, just need advice on the extra 35%.

Now, how would you guys go about this? I really wanna F close this one, but she aint that easy in the sack (she aint had a shag in a year or two!)

Do I need to stop the kissing and cuddling stuff? And pretend I aint interested? or what? Or turn up the kino?

Cheers

Guys

Sounds like you're reading too much into fairly innocent playful friend behaviours.

Keep being friends with her and get out and start living your life.

Learning these skills is not about getting any specific girl. It is about improving your options with women as a whole. It is standard for guys who are new to all this to ask very specific questions about how they can rectify or improve a particular situation. Try to stop thinking like this as soon as possible.

I don't think you should change the way you interact with this girl. Instead get out, be social and start meeting people. As your options increase you will stop putting so much value on any one girl, as there will always be another one or two or three round the corner.


Peace,

kowalski

Amen to what Kowalski said, its about having plenty of irons in your fire. It's far too damaging to be focused on one girl, even more so when this girl is a friend of yours and has been for a long time.

If you try to bed her, you risk screwing up your friendship. And that's exactly what it is: just a friendship.
Telling her soppy shit like how much you are into her etc. has thrown away your value and there will be no sexual attraction on her part.

If you don't believe any of this, take her out, kino escalate, kiss and build up from there, but she will probably push you away with "I thought we were friends"...

Go out, open some sets, build your knowledge, get in field and start meeting women!