i believe that shallow girls look for looks. its their egos that look for looks. but what they respond to is something else. the physical sensations they feel in their body are due to your actions, and in my opinion not your looks.

infact, i do think looks can have a little effect on the feeling a womans body can give the woman. but in my opinion its down to action for the most part.

first impressions can be a motherfucker though.


take a look at alex reid. man. this guy is a loser. he has the body, he has the looks. but watch him with jordan, just cringe worthy. you can see she had no attraction for him what so ever. NONE. she has just finished him.

<THIS IS MY CURRENT STATE OF MIND, MY MIND IS PRETTY VOLATILE SO MY IDEAS AND BELIEFS COULD CHANGE>

There is way too much emphasis in the mind of the modern man on how he looks. It's crackers if you think about it! Because of this men expect girls to chat them up, and as a result will not take action. This is the excuse for their low standards and letting girls walk all over them. They think they are supposed to be the pretty ones. This is not what men are supposed to be.

Glad I could be of assistance.


For us guys in the know there are obvious reasons why couples tend to be similar in their level of physical attractiveness to each other.

You should all know the answer to this.


Peace,

kowalski

This maybe the case K, but I think that assuming or accepting this can be classed as a limiting belief. If you decide to rate yourself appearance wise at a 7, don't assume you can't do better than a 7 girl in your mind's eye. To be frank I hate all this HB rating, everyone's tastes are different. My 7 will be different to everyone else's so the whole thing is ambiguous and pointless dwelling over. Go for girls you like.

If Chiles rates a girl as a 10 and claims her for his own pleasure then fair play to the lad.

Right, I'm lost now. What may well be the case?


Peace,

kowalski

I can see this point is going nowhere fast! My point got lost a few posts ago.

I'm just argueing that as a man, you should not be concerned/worried with your looks.

Dont worry bro, you'll find your way.

Yes, Nova, I agree.

The answer we should all know which I was alluding to is the reason why although looks don't mean squat people still end up with partners of a similar level of physical attractiveness in the majority of cases. We should all know why this is not a paradoxical situation (i.e. most people don't know the truth and live in the socio-media created reality where they believe all that crap does matter and behave accordingly the poor deluded fools with their externally maintained they of self). And that answer ties up all the loose ends in this particular discussion.


Peace,

kowalski

Excellent. I am in full agreement K!

Just coming in on the last few posts about rating yourself and going for a partner of equal 'worth'.....I am still undecided..when I go Sarging and open sets I obviously (naturally) rate each girl to find the hottest girl and to establish my target (so I can ignore and neg her) and I find myself altering my Game depending on her rating: If a girl is a HB9 then I will use a different aproach to say a HB6 - however I have recently been chatting with someone who rates all girls as a HB1 so there is 'no pressure or AA' because they are only a 1 - and so he assumes the higher status / assumes attraction because he is a 10.

Sorry to hack in on this post, but it just got me wondering on how you guys rate HBs when your Sarging and if it affects your approach / technique?