Firstly ...

Yuk. That's not very nice. And what crime has she commited to deserve this treatment? The crime of being sexually attractive to you. Don't punish her for that.


Looks-wise I tend to think and talk about girls using real terms that I think describe them like pretty, cute, average, beautiful, ugly, etc. I also look for non-aesthetic qualities that girls have which affect how attracted I am too. These are all qualitative rather than quantitative, and they don't de-humanise the object of your attraction.

With the numbering system you have to rate incommensurable qualities alongside one another. One girl might be really pretty, another really intelligent, a third really stylish, a fourth a bit cute and really funny, a fifth extremely sexy. To try and decide which is best is like comparing apples and oranges.

Also, I don't think I could maintain any consistency through a numbering system. I've seen people on here say "I was in a two set (HB7.6 and HB8.4)". What the fuck! How are they maintaining any kind of calibration through, what is effectively, a 100 point rating system?

Seriously!


To the second part of your question. I don't think about game and how to sun it in each or any instance. I just get on with it. Naturally. I give every girl the benefit of the doubt that she is probably a nice person and will want to suck me off . Then I 'play it by ear', as they say.


To parody Number 6 "She's not a number. She's a fit girl".


Peace,

kowalski

Thanks for the comemnts Kowalski; with regards to the negs etc - that's just my style of Game - I come in under the radar and am a mix of Mr Comfortable and cocky/funny so the negs and her trying to get validation to be noticed just works for me...maybe not the 'nicest' of tactics but it works for me and I never abuse the girls or their trust (see my signiture tagline) but I guess every guy plays slightly differently.

I agree with the rating system and trying to keep consistency - I tend to sub-consciously put them into rough pigeon holes so I can adjust my Game accordingly, but not as extreme as HB7.6 and the like! I often go into sets and find the first girl really stylish, the second girl really 'old fashioned' cute and the third very sexy etc and how to you pick a target from three great girls - well, I don't - I play the Game and see who excites me the most, who plays along and stimulates my mind. It is nice to finally, after all these years, have a choice of who I want to go for - not what I am left with! lol

But I think the most valuable piece of advice I take away from your post is 'every girl is probably a nice person and will want to suck me off'! lol Genius! Amen Brother :-)

The winner this week is:
Wayne Bridge

BBC Sport - Football - Wayne Bridge withdraws from England selection

His team mate Danny Mills says not to judge him, balls to Danny Mills. Winning the World Cup is a dream of every football player. Wayne Bridge is a child. Man up you wuss.


Peace,

kowalski

I think it's because he's shit and probably won't even play anyway there are far better English left backs than him

Yeah totally agree. He's made himself to look quite pathetic, if he truly wanted to keep his dignity then he should rise above it by carrying on with his career regardless. No point crying over spilt milk.

Alot has been said in the media lately about the example footballers set to kids as role models. The John Terry scandal was one thing, but to spit your dummy out, take your ball home and say 'I'm not playing anymore' when faced with adversity is another bad example.

In the words of Mr T 'Get some nuts!!'

He's a professional footballer, he's in a priviliged position he could date practically any women he wanted and he's willing to throw it away. I've lost respect for the guy.

I hope he gives Terry a slap on Saturday.

To add to the footballer chodes I would like to submit Ashley Cole. His comment yesterday made me chuckle. Basically he is blaming his cheating behaviour on the fact that his girlfriend forced him to live with her mother at his house.

Does admitting that you are under the thumb ring a bell Ashley? It kind of sums up the blame culture we live in too.

Let's Talk About <S>Sex</S> Football, Baby...

This guy is a legend, sums it up beautifully

Loving these observations too:

Johnny Goes Ballistic About Volleys...

Viva Johnny Nic!!!

I just heard another point of view on the whole bridge/terry debate on the times football podcast and it got me thinking...

Bridge has a son, so was he thinking about his son rather than his career?

If he plays for England goes to the world cup with the media circus that follows the stories are not going to stop so he drew the line and sacrificed his chance although a slim chance of a World Cup medal.

Bridge isn't as good a player as Terry, did he take this into account with his decision? He didn't make a instant decision he took his time and concluded that the situation was unacceptable.

You can say that the player to do something should have been Terry however he persuaded his wife to forgive his affair but also to appear all happy in public with him as well. He could have stepped down from the captaincy and made a public apology but he didn't do any of this, he waited to be deposed.

We can't be sure of all the details but after seeing things another way I'm starting to think, is Bridge really such a chode? He has a son surely that's more important than kicking a ball about? Also has he actually made things easier for England and the man that wronged him (there is speculation that it went on for longer than reported).

After all the shit behaviour footballers get up to has Wayne Bridge showed he's not like the rest and been a man and taken action where others wouldn't?