Has anyone noticed with themselves that since getting involved in the community that girls start to approach and open you more and in some cases even throw themselves at you???

I've noticed this starting to happen to me more often, the weekend was a classic example two girls on seperate occassions who incidentally seemed to be loners within the club opened me, introduced themselves to me, began dancing/grinding with me and one even tried to full on snog me in a stair well.

Mind you, both these girls weren't all that 5/6s at best. My friend who I was with would have taken either of them in a heartbeat if it was offered to him. I'm more a quality over quantity kind of guy, so I found myself humouring them for a while then politely excusing myself from both interactions with 'I need to go to the toilet'....and of course just like our female counter-parts often do in these situations...I didn't return. I'm a cunt, I know.

The social dynamics of this interest me, these are just my thoughts on this but correct me if im wrong. I find girls who are total horror shows, say 1-3s just do not approach guys whatsoever they realise they will most likely get knocked back and instead take pleasure knocking back guys who chat to their hotter friends. Mid-range girls say 4-6's get less of a look-in than the hot girls so to avoid being completely overlooked they compete and approach for themselves. Hot girls generally don't approach because lets face it, they don't really need to, attention is going to come their way regardless.

Good stuff.

Get used to it man. It's like bees round honey. Just dont get scared, its easy to freak out if a turbo hottie approaches you. Accept it man because it is now just part of your reality.

The hotness of the girls approaching you will continue to rise as you become more in tune with your sexual side.

I think often what holds the really beautiful girls back is that they don't want to get rejected, and risk their sense of self in the process, rather than they don't need to. Despite what Mystery tells us any of us who have trully beautiful girl friends can say from experience that the these girls almost never get chatted up because no one has the balls to do it. Guys tend to only chat up girls they think they can pull easily - which means either just cute enough girls, or hot girls who dress and act like total sluts, or more likely just above average girls who dress and act like total sluts (i.e. not girls of real quality).


Peace,

kowalski

I don't see how you are my friend.. as a quality male, you now only expect a quality female in return. Why should you settle for anything less. Good on you i say for having a standard and sticking to it even when, as you say, its on a plate.

Retro

Good stuff.

I find the same too. Though I haven't 'sarged' in ages, whenever I go out and meet people there are almost always offers I could take up that night.

But if you're picky (like me), and don't like body fat (like me; most women in this country are fat) then you tend to turn them down. That's fine. You no longer need the ego boost of it

I think Hustler was referring more to how he dealt with the girls - humouring them, making a fake excuse to leave, leaving them believing he will return - rather than simply for not being sexually interested in them.

A trully high value individual will speak their mind honestly and respect the other who is respectful to them.


Peace,

kowalski

Hehe, this is pretty damn true if you look around. Probably why I can't resist the overseas girls. The acent is a bonus too of course.

Anthony & nova,

You have racist penises. I live near Chinatown and can authoritively inform you that most oriental chicks are fat too. In fact I read your posts just before going into my local supermarket, so it was fresh in my mind, and there were 5 oriental girls in there 4 of whom I would classify as fat and only 1 was pretty and she was one of the fat ones (what a waste of a pretty face).


Peace,

kowalski

Daaaaam!

A chubby oriental chick?! I want one!

Haha! Aye some of the ones round China Town can be porkers. But they've been living the Western dream.

Rather an oriental porker than a British one... god my nob is racist hehe.