Can everyone put down their view of a DIRECT approach

tell me what you think direct is

give an example of a direct approach real or made up!

If person thinks x -

• Direct - "x"
• Indirect - "y ... (x)"

Peace,

kowalski

Direct is being clear about yoru intentions right from the start! "hi I just noticed you and I would be kicking myself all day if I didn;t tell you, you are... really gorgeous"

Indirect is where you use indirect openers like "who lies more men or women?" then play around for god knows how long with routines, dhv stories or whatever and sometimes only to find out she has a boyfriend or just not interested. The great thing about Direct is you save yourself a lot of time and women love boldness!

But Indirect is convenient for those of us who have bad AA and need help building up our confidence. I still use both, whatever works in my opinion!

say whatever u think, does it not matter if its couched in a routine/line?

eg go up to a girl in a club and say in a playful but awesome french accent, "u r beautiful, do u speak french?" she says "no..hehe" u say "do u know how to french kiss" she says "ermm" you say "well i must show u...come here"

is this direct?..real intention is clear from start..u think shes beautiful and want to kiss her...

I said to girl behind a bar once, after she served me, I said "can i say something to you, I find you very attractive".

Fairly Direct I feel.

It is a definition of direct. That is all.

Do you behave like this when you're reading a dictionary, Joe?


Peace,

kowalski

ur response to the op was vague, ur "definition" was lacking, so yes if i read that in a dictionary i would dig deeper to get a better understanding

that time of the month?

It isn't vague, in fact it is quite prescriptive, it just has variables.


Peace,

kowalski

There's nothing wrong with that. It's a compliment and not vulgar. On the other hand she probably hears it a lot and so it is only going to do you any favours if she also finds you attractive based on her first impression of you.

That's fine. She's going to have to be attracted to you though for that to get you somewhere.