..when a girl says "i have a boyfriend"?

in some cases maybe its true and in others its just a sheild she puts up. But i want to know what you guys have said/used in reply to something like that in field.

Thanks,
Y45

This has been mentioned heaps on my other forum! Just keep going, don't leave as soon as you hear this, can be a shit test.

Possible reasons why the boyfriend objection comes up:

1. She genuinely has a boyfriend
2. She is not attracted to you but is happy to carry on chatting to be polite
3. She has a boyfriend but is attracted to you but wants you to know so you are the one with the responsibility
4. She doesn't want to appear too easy

Possible solutions

Her: "I have a boyfriend"
Me: "really, thats nice, anyway as I was saying"
Me: "I'm not into threesomes"
Me: "Can he cook? he can make us breakfast in bed"
Me: "thats ok we don't need him"

Boyfriend destoyers! Desexualise the guy, look for cracks in their relationship. This is all Tyler Durden stuff, very powerful and deadly in the wrong hands! heheh

Boyfriend destroyers are shit, why become a manipulative idiot to be successful? There are thousands of single girls out there, why not go for one of them?

-Loke

I once had a couple of girls tell me they were lesbians and in a relationship together. I just gave them a confused look and said, "I didn't ask you about your private life. That's your business." Their defences completely broke down and they joined us for a drink... problem was: they weren't lying haha.

This is very true and I woudl never consider sleeping with girls who had boyfriends but some girls lie about having boyfriends and some lie even if the are attracted to you.

I have number closed plenty of girls who told me they had boyfriends afterward which is sooo funny! Another thing is, although a little evil and possibly AFC I'd love to fuck some of the girls who had rejected me back in school and gone off with less worthy guys but the nice guy in me coudl never do this.

I think as PUAs we all manipulate to some degree don;t we? Are negs not manipulative? Negs are usually used by guys who feel so insecure about being in the company of a beautiful girl, they have to bring her value down to meet his. He incorrectly believes she has higher value than him! But you know what this is bullshit! YOur value and her value are the same! I don't have to peacock or neg to talk to a beautiful girl, I know I have the right to approach anyone I want, fuck all this other bullshit!

"We've known each other for 5 minutes and you're already telling me about your problems?"

Funny... I never get this problem... Actually I can't remember one instance where I get the 'I have a boyfriend' or 'Let's just be friends'. (Maybe I'm too ugly to be considered a threat! )

If I did... I would say the ol' classic:

MB: Does he treat you well?
Her: Yeah!
MB: Good, cos I wouldn't! (With my standard brand of cheeky tone)

Usually she's having too much fun with me to even think about her boyfriend!

The only thing I would say, if you get this very early on in the conversation then you've given too much of a pick up vibe... try being more fun and you'll find that shit doesn't happen!

Some women are like chimps, they wont let go of one branch till they have a firm hold of another.

Her: I have a boyfriend

Me: Thats OK we don't have to tell him

I think its worth pushing to see what you get, no point dropping at the first hurdle because it is THE shit test. You will never get anywhere if your not gonna push this one. The majority of the time she is talking utter shit. Her "boyfriend" could be just some douche she has sex with now and again, she could also be referring to her ex-boyfriend (this is common).

If she REALLY has one, she will just cut the convo and walk away. Fair play to her. You can usually tell the ones with a real boyfriend tho as they are the ones having the least fun. I agree that if you know for a fact she does have one, LEAVE IT. Only utter faggots try and make a girl cheat on her fella and us guys should not be fucking each other over.

Thinking back tho....

The past three girls I have slept with all said they had "boyfriends" at first (pro top: they didnt)