hi there

My situation is that im 19 and am turning 20 in march.Im desperate to lose my virginity beforr im 20 and i do not wanna be hiring a hooker as i think its still possible for me to fc. I would really like any help as i am wholly dedicated.

What should i do?

I'll fuck you

bad attitude to have, desperation=neediness=unattractive, leads to no girls or a girl who is really shit and u regret and feel like shit...

why feel any pressure? who cares doesnt matter how long it is jus use it to drive you to talk to more girls but dont think i need something from her, she'll sense it, and it will fuk u over.

my take on it


peace

hire a hooker, get it out the way, its not a big deal....

once u fucked ur past it!! either that or groom a 16 year old

Clean ur room, chang the bedding, go clubbing every night and pull those birds who stand around wasted at the end, jealous that their friend has pulled and not them. Confidently say 'I'm going home now, do you want to come?' then pause.

I second Max's post. He's replied literally to the specific problem u posted about. Follow those steps if u need a shag pronto. But if you gonna be picky, you gonna need good game, and that take time to practice while out sarging.

get a hoe Once it's over with you'll be like "what was that all about"

I might take my own advice on this. I now know what the last missing piece of my game is and its sexual confidence. At some stage during the conversation the girl is going to think some equivalent of 'could this guy smash it?'. If the answer in their mind is 'no' they dont want to sleep with some guy who'd be shit in bed. So at the moment I show confidence in talking with and touching women but not in pounding them senseless. I would hire a ho but I'm scared of std's and that would ruin the moment. So in order to get laid regularly I need to get laid, tonight! (begins room clean phase..)

im at college right now, have never been clubbing and i still live with the parents , do not have many friends(little to none).
Ive been the social outcast through my sixth form year in my old college, but ive gotten past that and i do have a few aquatance's, however i do not talk with them outside college etc. I realy really want to do something about this as i see my life know as a downward spiral. The reason i want to get laid is the fact that the average age to get laid is 16. But i know that i really would not have lost my virginity due to it being a hooker. Im off to uni next year and i want the months remaining in college to be able to learn new and improve my social skills not just with girls but with people in general.

Ive also got a bit of a stalker phase going, well there was this "10" that came to my college. I never even said hi to her throughout the enitire year of college, but the funny part is that she was more attracted to me then i was to her

I really would appreciate your help?

Hey Man

I feel for you, I really do. I was where you are now! When I was in 6th form there was a girl I reallly really liked and I was way too shy to do anything about it. I ended up stalking her and I still feel ashamed to this day for doing that. GOt warned off by her big brother a few times and so much unnecessry shit happened. In the end it wasn;t worth it!

How about joining in extra curricular activities, clubs etc? just start natural conversations with people, whether it be about what was on tv, sport, fashion, Gossip. I didn;t lose my virginity til i was 27! But I really dont' care because I did lose it to someone I cared about. Don't put so much pressure on yourself, go out, talk to people without any agenda, try some internet dating too.