Hmm im not going to try and put you in a faulse sense of security here and tell you age does not matter to any girl. young girls (18-21) on occasions have told me they would not date a guy in their late thirties early fourties... But firstly often these type of girls are shallow and superficial... do you really want them? and secondly girls do tend to have a habit of saying things like this and not really meaning them. A girl I know once told me she didnt think one of my mates was attractive who i was trying to set her up with who was desperatly trying to hit on her, and yet 2 weeks later he was balls deep in her.

BESIDES there are just as many if not more young girls out there that love the idea of an older guy. Individual differences my friend, no different to the way some girls will prefer a blonde haired guy to a dark haired guy and vice verca. As others have said for a-lot of girls age will never be a limiting factor, nor will other such attributes as height, wealth, having muscles, etc. Sure they help, with initial impressions... but it's predominantly how you carry yourself that counts!

They don't know what they really want. When you ask them what they want its logical not what they would respond to in real life emotionally

so true its not even funny.

...and what they want today is not what they want tomorrow

I've met a few guys on this forum who, until now, I never knew were in or around their 30's or even 40's. It's the way you hold yourself.

I've got a non PUA friend who is about the same age as me (26), but looks like he's 40 because he doesn't look after himself, and because he doesn't hold himself well.

On the other hand, I got ID'd for the lottery the other day, and I don't think I've ever not been ID'd when I'm in a pub.

Men age much better than woman - that is a fact.

It's also a non-issue, as evidenced by all the above posts.

Much love,

Craigus

I'm 37 with virtually no experience of the pick up game. I have a few mental barriers admittedly but age isn't one of them.

No ... I'm old, just the wrong side of 45. I nailed half a dozen or so birds more that 20 years younger - if you did that in your 30s youd be arrested

Well I'm coming up for 31 and I've got a number of natural attributes that I didn't have when I was younger. For one I'm much less reactive to things, I have maturity on my side so I don't try to be anyone's dancing monkey & thus don't give off that neediness vibe.

That's just me, others may be different, but I imagine these are general traits that come with age?

And that's just the mental attitude side of things. Whilst I'm not looking for a gold-digger (she'd be out of luck with me anyways!), I do have my own house, nice car etc and I think a certain level of prosperity can be a factor.

My dad is 56 and his bird is twenty years younger than him. They've been together quite a few years. She is two years older than I.

Age not only means nothing, it can be a boon to your game if you're older. A lot of women - younger women - have a thing for older men. I firmly believe this is something to do with the way they relate to their fathers. We're talking deep Freudian shit here.

Not even just younger women. I'm 45, and had a relationship with a woman five years younger than me who looked about 25. She liked to call me 'daddy'. Revealing, if not also slightly creepy.

When I was in my mid-thirties, I dated a girl for a couple of years who was only 19 when I met her. She'd confessed to me she had a crush on me. She turned out to be crazy, but it was nice while it lasted.

Age is a boon, not a barrier. Younger women know older men tend to be more stable in terms of their personalities. Most often, they've sorted their shit out and grown up in a way a lot of us haven't really, even by our early thirties.