So i was out Saturday night as some of you may be aware, opening many sets but not being able to escalate.

i got a few numbers and the last girl i spoke to was a medical student, she was probably about a hb5. so i text Sunday night saying how i thought it was nice speaking to her and i would like to talk to her again some time. no response.

Im now contemplating sending her another text but am unsure of what angle to go in as. a part of me wants to tell her that i didnt think she was a flake blah blah blah and another part of me wants to reitterate my first text but it may com across too needy. Advice would be lovely. Thanks!

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Text game can be a complicated affair, but I reckon that it's one of the strongest parts of my game - something that I learnt from a spoilt past of escalating from Internet dating.

There are numerous reasons that she may not have gotten back to you. She could have forgotten about the text, is playing 'hard to get', is not as available as she first made out, or maybe even just plain not interested.

Personally I'd send a loaded text (one that ends in a question) and leave it at that. If she get's back to you, it's a matter of beginning text game and escalation that way (if that's what you're intending to do), if she doesn't, keep number for a couple of weeks - in case she gets hold of you - and then delete and move on

The actual text I'd recommend in this situation is "Hey you. I'm out and about at [wherever] on [whenever]. You out that night? We should meet up there if you are".

This way, she knows that you're around, she knows where, she knows when, and she knows that you want to meet; but because you said "we should meet there", so also knows that you're not going to chase her wherever she is (which stops you coming across as needy).

Let us know what goes on

You waited til sunday night? I always text a couple of hours after meeting teh girl so I am still fresh in her mind. In that time she her mood would have changed. Its ok to text back that soon as long as you reply with something witty about how you met.

"hey young lady, hope you're behaving and haven't conked out after a few lemonades" lol

I'm texting this girl and I tell her I'm calling her and she says 'ok not too early i'm out tonight' The nxt day she doesnt answer doesnt ring or text back. I send one playful teasing message about her thinking i'm too good looking to talk to me and I'm not going to text her again until she responds.

Its tempting to be angry and send a disciplining style text 'ur such a bitch bla bla' but thats not good. I only pulled this girl the other day bcos I gamed her about 2 months ago and she remembered me. Seemed to be that day2 was too much pressure whereas meeting up on a night out was enjoyable. I might see her again in a month randomly, spank her ass for flaking and take her home and fuck her brains out. Leave it open and like you have better things to do.

My rule of thumb is never to text more than twice without response.

I'm not going to chase anyone. I've been down that path in the past and it just turns you into a needy chode who gets excited everytime you get a text and then gets disappointed when it's just your phone provider giving you a network update, causing you to go into a self-depricating spiral of self pity and woe. No more. She can optimise on my advances, or she can lose out to some other girl who will have smaller pores and bigger implants

seems a bit excessive!

Erm, yeah... right.

so i decided to text all the girls i got numbers off to see if they would reply...

one girl (russian) is a graphics desinger and just replied...


Me: hey little miss artist! still remeber your crazy dancing, im gonna add you on facebook. I'm out this weekend around leciester square are you? we should meet up.

Her: Sorry but who are you?

Doh! how to react fellas?

ooooh.... no imression left there mate!! ur problem isnt the text, its the impression u leave!!

every single girl i text knows exactly who i am when i text, coz i create some memorable connecting moment!

work on creating roleplay type scenarios! a joke between u & her when u meet

this makes the date arrangement easier

For a cold set, their impression of you in the face to face interaction would almost always be stronger than anything you say in a follow up 'text game'.

So your game prior to the number close probably wasn't solid enough. Work on that instead of text.