What rules do you guys follow regarding contacting girls whos numbers you have or who are on your facebook?

I tend to send 2 Txts or 2 messages on facebook then dont contact them again

Also if they do actually reply and for example ive asked them about 3 things and i get a half assed 1 word answer back twice in a row, i`ll somtimes just reply and say 'thats a boring answer, tataa'

Just like to hear peoples opinions as i like to experiment
also on facebook, do you leave them on your friends list so they get to see awesome status messages and awesome fun pictures when you psot them or do you delete them?

you have no value to her - how do you let her know you are binning her off and try and instantly steal some value back or do you just forget it and delete her.

I can only relate it to "TXT game".

I only take a girls number after I have slept with her or if we DEFINITELY will the next time I see her.

My TXT's are simple. "We are meeting at.." or "I am coming round now..." staright forward stuff. TXT game is total fucking bullshit. It is for 15 year olds. If you have something of substance to say then phone the girl.

As for Facebook -same thing really, I only have people I know on there anyway. Never tried any Facebook game.

Also. If a girl TXT's me in "TXT SPK" you know like "hy u! lv t c u tmro Xx" Then I will instantly delete their number and cut all contact with them. I could never date a girl with such a loose grasp of the English Language.

Hard mtha fkin core there Jaz

Do experiment man.

Say all sorts to illicit a reaction. If you get continued success, then write an overpriced ebook and make a fortune! Hazaa!

U no dis.

this is pretty good timing as I was on Facebook after a night out last night and talking to a girl I kissed and choded around with out intent for a while a year ago. Anyway she's in NY for the next three months so I thought I had nothing to lose and went direct Phil style and the convo went something like this: so we we're talking crap about picnics,
me: if your lucky I'll take you for one
her: aw cool that would be awesome
me: but if I'm honest I'd like something else
her: right what that?
me: don't pretend that you don't want us to have hot sweaty sex.

then basically from this I just kept the frame with shit like- I'm gonna fuck you silly, I'm gonna make you more than blush, we gonna have hard raw sex, we're gonna fuck like animals, your excited right? send me photos, imagine us naked kissing my neck while I throw you on my bed ect, you get the picture and when she put up some token resistance I just ignored and told her it's happening which she seemed to lap up.

This is the first time I've tried this before and would not have expected her reaction to be so compliant and gagging for it telling me how unfair this is that we cant have sex now and how frustrated I've made her, as we we're pretty much just friends. She did test my congruence a lot which made it even easier to carry talking about us fucking. Anyway when she's back she's now decided she's travelling to Scotland for a weekend of sex with me, nice little bonus.

whats this got to do with the origional post?, other than the word facebook

Sure I should explain, my mind wandered completely I've never really thought of Facebook as good tool to use and was surprised at how effective it could be. I'll share more of what I was thinking and what this has lead me to believe, you can use Facebook like you use a phone -txt (PrivateMessage) = weak and scared to talk her and gives you no control, ringing (fbchat) allows you to escalate, be in control and shows that you are confident in real time communication. To summarise, my rules are don't txt and don't private message, it's not alpha and is for chodes who cant hold a conversation, then run whatever normal game you want when you talk to them. You should be aiming for real time communication for efficiency if nothing else.

Also the second question/part of your post, salvaging value? your thinking about it too much IMO, just leave her on there and chat to her again another time, she might be busy, in a bad mood whatever, once you have girl on facebook you should treat it like approaching a set, keep ploughing till she deletes you (if your still into of course).

that just make me crack up! lol

I never use facebook chat, cant be arsed-- i tend to only send messages to people i am trying to get the number of. Once i get the number they get a couple of txts and i ring them.