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Originally Posted by magical
So i am a college student and i really like a girl in one of my classes. We have gone out 3 times. But this spring break came inbetween and i had lot of mid terms also so i haven't been able to talk to her for 2 weeks. She is in florida right now for break and i am in chicago. I wanna text her tomorrow but don't know what to text . Please help me and tell me what should i text to her 
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Firstly, chill out. You've had 3 dates with this girl, that does not mean you should be so strongly emotionally attached already. Do not attach your happiness to the success or failure of creating a relationship with someone that you have yet to build a real connection with.
Secondly, calling is generally better, unless you feel you can't show or act confident with her on the phone.
If you're dead set on texting, stop stressing about it. Just say hello and ask her if she wants to do anything on whatever day the two of you are going to be able to see each other next.
Continue to stress out like this and you increase your chances of failure massively. You will do or say something needy or convey neediness or insecurity in some way or other.