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Default help me please :( - 22-03-2011, 08:56 PM

So i am a college student and i really like a girl in one of my classes. We have gone out 3 times. But this spring break came inbetween and i had lot of mid terms also so i haven't been able to talk to her for 2 weeks. She is in florida right now for break and i am in chicago. I wanna text her tomorrow but don't know what to text . Please help me and tell me what should i text to her
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Default 22-03-2011, 09:01 PM

Since you both are no strangers and you been out with her 3 times, how about:
Magical: How's your break going? What have you been upto? As for me Ive been blah blah blah...! Make it that you've been having a good time but you are thinking of her. But dont make some stupid story up...!


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Default 22-03-2011, 09:03 PM

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So i am a college student and i really like a girl in one of my classes. We have gone out 3 times. But this spring break came inbetween and i had lot of mid terms also so i haven't been able to talk to her for 2 weeks. She is in florida right now for break and i am in chicago. I wanna text her tomorrow but don't know what to text . Please help me and tell me what should i text to her
Firstly, chill out. You've had 3 dates with this girl, that does not mean you should be so strongly emotionally attached already. Do not attach your happiness to the success or failure of creating a relationship with someone that you have yet to build a real connection with.

Secondly, calling is generally better, unless you feel you can't show or act confident with her on the phone.

If you're dead set on texting, stop stressing about it. Just say hello and ask her if she wants to do anything on whatever day the two of you are going to be able to see each other next.

Continue to stress out like this and you increase your chances of failure massively. You will do or say something needy or convey neediness or insecurity in some way or other.
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Default 22-03-2011, 09:06 PM

dont make it too long, dont make it too factual, do play around with teasing assumptions, do show more interest in her than telling her what you did.

example; 'Hey how great is it to have a break? I assume you;ve been at disney world every day, riding round and round on the teacups and getting ur photo taken with minnie mouse dressed as a princess. I'v been eating the same giant chicago-style pizza for three days now.. x'


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Default 22-03-2011, 09:18 PM

these r all great reply guys i was thinking about sending something like
"What sort of trouble are you causing in florida? "
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Default 22-03-2011, 09:29 PM

I'd elaborate on it more else you'll get back 'o, not much. Ate some toast, saw my grandma, walked the dog. what have you done?' whack an x on the end of all messages to girls, it makes it more playful and if u do it evry time they dont perceive it as being a come-on like 'i just kissed you' so there's no need to be nervous about using them.


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