And thus, if you can get a girl pregnant, this book isn't for you..

Alpha, i cant do it right now cos thers a few things i gotta get first of all is a driving license i absolutely need this in order to do it.

Right now im trying to find ANY job i can so the ex has less reasons to paint me as a bad cunt.

At the minute im fucked & have no choice but to get the legal advice, im not gunna persue it yet, i will wait till he is born & see if she is still intent on cutting me out, i wanna be in his life.


One of my cousins has a girl pregnant & its the polar opposite of my situation, he dusnt give a shit about her or the baby & wanted her to get rid, its fuckin unfair.

I have given this advice to many people, and I will give this advice to you:
Do an Open Uni course (government funded) in a subject of your choice

This is a perfect option for someone who has no job or money, and there are plenty of entry level courses with no pre-requisites needed.

As for the baby situation.. life is not fair, but you have to deal with it best you can.

Sort out the driving licence.. alternatively get a moped or a bicycle

Definitely get the legal advice, can't hurt

Goto Distance Learning Courses and Adult Education - The Open University, click Study at the OU, find a course you want to do.. choose a level 1 course.. apply for a student fee grant to pay for it, (you don't even pay it back).
PM me if you want me to go into more detail and help you with it.. I applied for two courses on it and finished my level 4 certificate in business studies, all free of charge..

cool!!!

Ive got a level 3 diploma in business financial management & level 3 in business enterprise so i could possibly build on these.

I have level 1 & 2 drug & alcohol awareness & want to be a drug support worker & steer kids away from the drug scene cos i been to hell & back & dont want my kids/anyone elses kids getting caught up in it...im really passionate about doing this, & the woman who coached the course is going to help me along in any way she can cos she believes in me, i will ultimately be working with her, like i said though, i need my license first, & also need to clock up some voluntary work (my mate works in a youth club, i can do voluntary work anytime i want) maybe i will find something to help me in this, councelling, social work etc.


my solicitor just called, he said its best to wait till he is born & see how she behaves towards allowing me see him, this is what i was gunna do anyway.......in any case (not unless i was a murderer or child killer or something) its impossible for her to keep me from seeing him, so i have been stressing myself for 2 months over nothing!!!!