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Originally Posted by Phil
the reason u get LMR is this:
There is a general rule to how men & women play dates.
The woman holds the key to the sex
the man wants that key
man chases key
woman protects key!
so... i went to some womans the other day. she knew what i was goin for, when i started escalating she said, ur gettin carried away... so i said, ah ok, im gonna phone a taxi. She knows what i was there for.
she been textin me askin if i wanna go round wen the kids are out & she will wear her heels for me BLAH BLAH! because im not that desperate that if she pulls the plug I basically beg for her to reconsider.
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An example of Scarcity Mentality vs. Abundance Mentality.
There are different ways of dealing with this depending on the situation, but the one constant I usually have is to make sure they know what's going down before even entering the bedroom. It could be through playful banter, or a direct statement, physical contact, push-pull etc. Whatever floats your boat I guess