Phil:



Knave:



Least Phil lets them know

Its not just being clear with your intentions verbally, you have to have good tonality and non verbals. When you tell her how you feel you should be eye fucking her, talk slowly. "You are absolutely..gorgeous" do this like you mean it and if you genuinely like her it will have that more of an impact.

You can also make a statement of intent. While chatting to her find something you like about her and tell her how sexy that is, how sexy she looks in that dress. I have often walked up to girls telling them they look really sexy in their dresses.

If you need examples, watch some pickup approaches on youtube. Watch some fils like james bond and you say you're short, so is Al Pacino, watch him in Scarface and Frankie and Johnny.

Hope that helps my friend.

Peace and love

the probem i feel with this is it can put you in a position where u seem to hit a point of subordination.

once u have done this u need to instantly change the subject like it never happened so she cant dwell on it... even tho she will want to.

just makes the difference between

a guy who says it then stands there in awe like a gimp

or a guy who isnt afraid to say it & doesnt expect a response, cool mo who just continues.

plus if you dont give her time to enjoy it in that moment she will be thinkin about u when ur gone

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So in short a reasonable summary is;

Say one sentence that indicates intent, But don't leave it hanging.

Just move on quickly as if you just said something about the weather.

So she's cute, it's just a fact. Like chips are nice. What else


Example (in my head)

Her- "Some Stuff"

Scamp - "Hey,you're really kinda cute, I just noticed.
Scamp - "Do you reckon that guy over there meant to wear his Dad's Shirt?"


Or

Use a phrase that signifies intent in the opening line

eg

AND

Use strong body language, tonality, eye contact.

I like this, looking back I have noticed much better responses from girls when I've been like this.


I think the ART of all this is managing to act as if you don't give a fuck and that you get loads of women. EVEN if you REALLY need a shag.

Then you get enough sex

Then you don't give a fuck

Then you have options


Reasonable?

I am not a naturally alpha guy, but do pretty well with women.

This was quite difficult to write down as my 'on' nights' just seem to happen. However, the below gives a relatively accurate description of how I am when I pull:

My best nights always seem to be when I'm not thinking about pulling and that awe of neediness isn't there. Maybe it should be nights when I don't care about pulling actually. My first few months in Pick Up I seemed to get worse at pulling given the amount of girls I was speaking to v.s. closes I was getting. This is probably because I reeked of desperation. This not caring goes right through to having sex. At no stage am I trying to do anything/convince her. It all just happens and I give off the aura that I can take it or leave it.

The second consistency seems to be nights when I'm having fun (although not as consistent as above. I've still got laid from nights when I've sat with a face like a slapped arse most of it). Obviously if you're having fun and are at ease with yourself then this will come across to others. Please note you need to actually be having fun and not pretending. If you are wondering if you are having fun then your probably not. Too many times have I been on 'pick up nights' where we will be dancing and whooping away and it is so obvious to the world we are just pretenders!

Thirdly I am in a position where there are girls (obviously) and I am speaking to them. Make sure you speak to them. You can get yourself in a fun state quick with just one flirty conversation. Just don't be hankering for sex at the same time.

Fourthly, when I am on form I am very funny (in a good way). It has slight edge to it as well so I am sexual and dominant with it too, but never in a dickish way - most people around me like me when I am in this state unless they are very insecure with themselves for some reason. I guess this falls into the category of cocky funny.

I am creative and flexible. I will suggest ideas to a girl and she will go for it. Lets do this, lets do that etc. Also very important thing that falls into this category is when an opportunity comes a knocking I answer the door!!

Time for cliche time, but one that is very important to me. I am being myself. By this I mean I have allowed myself to be genuine and authentic. I am not concerned about how others are judging me. I don't even think about it. In fact I'm not really thinking! I don't try to be someone else to impress people.

Summary:

1) Non-needy
2) Having genuine fun
3) I am speaking to girls
4) Cocky funny (or a term like this that doesn't make me cringe!)
5) Creative/flexible
6) Genuine/being myself


Now I'll be the first to admit that I am not always like this. What do I do when I'm feeling depressed and self-conscious? If on a night out I just try to speak to people to get out of this mood or I just accept it for what it is. However more longer term I accept it and do stuff in my life that makes me happy (non pick-up related) to bring my state back up.

In fact my overall pick-up mentality is something like this:

1) Leading a challenging, interesting and exciting life that I want to lead. A life that makes me happy and in a good mood.
2) Talk to girls to get experience of what works and what doesn't.

I'm loath to thank you for comments like that but in this case deserved

When you deliver the line you should be feeling relaxed as if she has to qualify herself to you. You could even use a bit of push pull "you're really gorgeous but... I'm still not sur about you" giving her an accusatory pout.

Thing is thought it doesn;t matter what you say, it won't work unless you are calm, confident and relaxed with your body language. If you do have trouble with this, try some meditation, watch films with examples of Alpha guys, i.e Daniel Craig and Al Pacino, watch the body language.

Remember communication is only 10% what you say, the rest is your body language.

Pretty much.

If you've not been laid in 6 months don't act like it, ask yourself what would a girl prefer, the answer is obviously. I'd also thank 'Snake eyes' if you haven't already, its a pretty good post.