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Default keeping options open whilst meeting other girls socially? - 20-08-2011, 09:12 AM

Ok, how do you go about keeping your options open whilst in a LTR?
Just been reading this on another forum:

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you SHOULD NEVER EVER stop seeing other women no matter how good looking she is or how wonderful her personality is.
If you don’t see other women except for her, start meeting more women. Seeing one girl will give you enough confidence boost to start seeing more.

Keep your options open. Have other women in your life (even as friends). Have women in your life that are dying to fuck you (but can’t). Go out! Don’t stay at home with her all the time. Meet other women. You don’t have to sleep with them but always have your GAME ON.
I am at the point where I am not 100% sure about my current LTR and have also met a couple of other interesting girls but on the sly. To keep meeting them I'm going to have to say to my LTR that I'm meeting them socially but that's just going to get her antennas up. I am sort of meeting them socially as I am new to the area but there's always a risk in the back of my mind that we could end up being attracted.
At the same time, I'm going to have to tell these new girls at some point that I am with someone. I don;t see how that's keeping an option open as they might not bother at the point or wonder why you didn't tell them earlier.

I guess if I wasn't having doubts then I wouldn't be trying to meet other girls?!
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Default 20-08-2011, 09:25 AM

End your LTR before seeing other girls, that said there's no reason why you shouldn't be friends with them.

Then see other girls but be honest that you are not in an exclusive relationship.

Stop seeing girls when you are next in an LTR, but obviously don't stop being friends with girls in general


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Default 20-08-2011, 10:01 AM

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End your LTR before seeing other girls, that said there's no reason why you shouldn't be friends with them.

Then see other girls but be honest that you are not in an exclusive relationship.

Stop seeing girls when you are next in an LTR, but obviously don't stop being friends with girls in general
To be friends with them you have to meet them first.
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Default 20-08-2011, 10:58 AM

GenePoole for some reason you want to troll my answers to the questions you pose. My answers are honest and based on sound experience that I've successfully used or use.

You say that you are morally sound and you just want to meet girls etc. yet your posts say otherwise:
keeping options open whilst meeting other girls socially?
natural reaction to you already seeing someone
bit on the side?

Be honest what are you actually looking for? do you want to fuck about? do you want a girlfriend? As currently I would interpret your situation that you have a girlfriend in an LTR and you want to mess about without it being serious or being caught

I might well be wrong with that assumption but it seems like you want advice from other forum members condoning your situtation and giving you advice on getting laid without getting caught.

Please correct me if I am wrong and enlighten me to your situation...


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Default 20-08-2011, 11:51 AM

There's honesty and there's honesty.

If you are serious about PU which I was the likelihood is you will be 'seeing several' girls at the same time, managing this is probalmatic at best. The morality is a huge subject I don't want to get into but I will say girls do it as well, one of my ex's has currently five guys on the go sh'es slept with two and one of them will get to be her bf, she's just not decided yet.

if you want see several girls dump the LTR, do it today you're on a site learning skills that will make you pretty fucking good at picking girls up.

If you love the LTR log off today.

I would def have as many women in your life as possible (friends, ex's) I could'nt possible list all the reasons but some the top are for advice, social proof, connections and just knowing a lot of women makes you more more attractive to women.

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Default 20-08-2011, 12:58 PM

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GenePoole for some reason you want to troll my answers to the questions you pose. My answers are honest and based on sound experience that I've successfully used or use.

You say that you are morally sound and you just want to meet girls etc. yet your posts say otherwise:
keeping options open whilst meeting other girls socially?
natural reaction to you already seeing someone
bit on the side?

Be honest what are you actually looking for? do you want to fuck about? do you want a girlfriend? As currently I would interpret your situation that you have a girlfriend in an LTR and you want to mess about without it being serious or being caught

I might well be wrong with that assumption but it seems like you want advice from other forum members condoning your situtation and giving you advice on getting laid without getting caught.

Please correct me if I am wrong and enlighten me to your situation...
I suppose I haven't figured it out fully yet and I'm trying to keep my options open but not cheat at the same time. Problem is once you start meeting other girls, the likelihood is that you open up a path to cheat.
Perhaps I'm just going through a bad patch with the LTR
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