Ok, how do you go about keeping your options open whilst in a LTR?
Just been reading this on another forum:
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you SHOULD NEVER EVER stop seeing other women no matter how good looking she is or how wonderful her personality is.
If you don’t see other women except for her, start meeting more women. Seeing one girl will give you enough confidence boost to start seeing more.
Keep your options open. Have other women in your life (even as friends). Have women in your life that are dying to fuck you (but can’t). Go out! Don’t stay at home with her all the time. Meet other women. You don’t have to sleep with them but always have your GAME ON.
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I am at the point where I am not 100% sure about my current LTR and have also met a couple of other interesting girls but on the sly. To keep meeting them I'm going to have to say to my LTR that I'm meeting them socially but that's just going to get her antennas up. I am sort of meeting them socially as I am new to the area but there's always a risk in the back of my mind that we could end up being attracted.
At the same time, I'm going to have to tell these new girls at some point that I am with someone. I don;t see how that's keeping an option open as they might not bother at the point or wonder why you didn't tell them earlier.
I guess if I wasn't having doubts then I wouldn't be trying to meet other girls?!