Okay... im getting a bit annoyed now about this phrase "an air of cockiness" described by many ppl to me about myself.

usually i wouldnt give a shit but this all started with my work partner today...

on the way back shes like i like this shit TV show. so im like okay that sucks you're a child. she jokes around saying she'll kill me if i keep saying it. then she says how good she is at art and i tease he saying i bet when she goes to the blackboard she really shows off. then she teases me about my lack of hobbies and how gym/tv/drinking isn't a hobby...

then she gets out of the cab, she turns right, i turn left. then she says where do u live.. i say to the left. she says oh and then follows me so i'm like "are you seriously stalking me" then she laughs and is like you're the most cocky person i've met.

beforehnd i told her about my old partner who did the WHOLE project for me so shes like you're the only guy i know who'd get that done for him laziest person ever, don't expect that from me its all gonna be 50/50!

then anyway we come to a cross roads, shes like what way are you going. i say straight. then shes like "im going..." then i cut her off and say you're going straight too right. she laughs then goes the way to her flat (which is not straight) after saying bye...


now this isn't a field report and i usually don't ever type up my bullshit but what is this air of cockiness.. is it good or is it bad? my best friend was like "u dont say anything in a cocky way or anything cocky... u just have an air of cockiness, sometimes intimidating". i'd like people's views on this.

I have heard that an 'air of cockiness' is the first symptom of the AIDS!

I think the problem may be when you meet a woman who is also very confident, as they just get really cocky and they HATE the mans confidence and will do everything to neg you and put you down, even though she is wet!!!

And I admit, I still do not know how to deal with this fully without being pissed off a little, maybe just get her back to your place and fuck her like an animal treating her like a slutbag

I get called arrogant by people who are shy and weak. Consider who is saying it and why before assimilating their announcements into your belief system.

If someone I thought was confident and well balanced and knew me told me i was arrogant, I'd pay attention.


Peace,

kowalski

someone once said "that's a bit big headed" i sai "yep"

another time I'm in this girls bed and say "I better put a condom on£ she says "that's a bit assumptive" I said "yep" then put the condom on and fucked her. so if some one says your cocky just say yep with an air of nonchalance.

If you have are confident, and have a strong reality, and this is working for you, then ignore it. It's just a shit test.

I've found that the more confident I am, the more shit tests I get thrown at me. As the Alpha male it can be hard at times, some people can be downright rude towards you. The unaffected confidence you project, the more negative shit tests you get thrown at you.

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