Well I messaged a 25 year old, good lookin girl, mother of a 2 year old..

exchanged couple messages, went on POF chat, got her MSN, went on webcam to prove we aren't weirdo 60 year old pervs, and now she wants me to go to her house (not too far away prob 15 min drive) next monday night for "a cuppa" and see what happens.. she was obviously flirting, saying she doesn't just put out to anyone but we will see what happens.. mentions her boobs looking bigger on cam n stuff.. she mentioned i should kiss her, with tongues when i go round.. i said is that your limit to how far you go (in better words than that) and she said no i go further.. she also mentioned she likes being treat like a slut in the bedroom and the man to be in control (yes!)

So I've NEVER done this with a complete stranger off a dating site, so any advice welcome?

Thoughts?

sounds like it's on that's all I can say. well done.

what?? what and what??? are you looking for sex advice or something?? i dont get it. And dont you think its kind of creepy and wierd to post what your thinking of doing to a girl when you go to her house, then discuss what to do??? go with the flow and chill out, let your ID take over!

AJay

She may be all cocky and confident on cam but any woman letting a man into her house with a child is probably going to be a bit nervous when it comes to the real thing. I would go for establishing comfort but keeping a sexual vibe. As soon as her comfort level is high enough she will jump on you.

Whoa whoa whoa
I don't want sex advice..
I don't think its weird and creepy to talk about things happening in a girls house, on a PUAForum? I've heard much worse

I am going with the flow and chilled, I just wanted to hear from someone who has met up with someone on the internet in the girls home.. Its just new for me

Any girl from pof with kids is easy pickings, sorry to generalise but it's true as they have their own set of limiting beliefs due to kids. On a moral standpoint, leave her better than when you found her

95% of girls who invite you round to her house for a cuppa means "it's on"! the more sexual you keep it the less likely you are to fuck up these odds

she wants cock

what does POF mean

Probably why she has a kid, last time she let some PUA into her house out came a sprog 9 months later.

I'm happy to bang all the hot moms on POF

I definitely think its on with her, even though she won't outright admit its guna happen, but thats cool.

Its funny, cos women don't want to be seen as a slut and stuff, but I don't think she is anyways.. women have needs

Arranged to go round Sunday night at 8pm, and I have monday off work so who knows I may share her bed!