Been a while I know. But I would like to tell you guys what happened to me the other day.

I was at my local starbucks, doing what I normally do when I am killing time at a coffee shop. Drawing naked girls making out. You know. Same old. When I looked over to my right to see another drawing pad sitting a few tables down. The image being worked on was of a bare back women but all the shading consisted of miniature buildings found in London.

It was a girl busy drawing it and she noticed me at about the same time I noticed her. We where both staring at each others work. Holy crap that was the hottest moment I ever had.

After chatting it is amazing how much we have in common. I mean she is even into Japanese horror. Common! How many girls out there even know this exists?

But here is my problem. Relationships are funny some times. If you mess up then that is the end of it all. But this girl is special. We realy do inspire each other. I mean when was the last time you had a date with a girl where you meet up just to draw.

Should I rather aim to be a friend and get something that may last a life time. Or try and bone her and get something that may only last a few weeks?

Cheers.

Why would it only last a few weeks?

Unless you are really NOT what she likes, and you would know that by waiting a bit and getting to know her before asking her out, then there shouldn't be an issue?

That is a really negative comment, you should be thinking: any woman is lucky to have a guy like me and the only chances of it "messing up" are if she fucks it up

That is a good point.

I dont have much experience on what happens after I get thier number. I some times wish I had a few girls I did not care about first so I have a better idea of what I was doing. I will get to know her better. Maybe try something a week or two down the line.

Depends where you want it to go.. why would you only want to be her friend? Is this out of fear of failure later on? If so, drop that wrong fear NOW and be confident in yourself that you would make a good friend/fuck buddy/boyfriend/husband/dad/employee/employer/ANYTHING

You may just have a bad case of one-itis? Blow your load to some porn, then re-evaluate how you feel about this girl. Being horny fucks up your entire brain! This tip is useful for every decision in life. FAP, then decide

I assume you have her number.. if so, escalate contact, meet up with her, fuck her, then when you blow your load on her face, re-evaluate if you would marry the girl...

Errr graphic.

I follow what you are saying. I will be going out with her tomorrow. She is buying me dinner to say thank you for a favour I did for her. Lets see if she is realy thankful.

Man I sound like a pig. But it is fun to type like this.

Dont make any other posts regarding this woman, forget PUA, forget everything and get caught up in the moments you spend with this fabulous lady. Never give away too much too soon, you need to make her feel all emotions in the spectrum if you wish for her to fall in love with you. This one itis shit is a load of cock dribble, its only one itis if she doesn’t feel the same for you.

"I don’t have much experience on what happens after I get their number."
lol, you don’t know what your missing.

If she ever says stuff to you like "your my new best friend" or "your a good friend"...... you must always reply with "im not your fucking friend". She will ask why...... don’t give and answer.... you can say something like "I have my reasons".

You still need to be alpha and strong minded, don’t let your feelings overrun you, try and block them off.... even making her aware that your trying to block them...like getting close and pulling away and shit (confidently, not as though your nervous but as though your affriad of getting attached or close).. this should make her feel obliged to try and unblock them by being extra nice to you. And when the time comes you will be the one having last minute resistance, not her!


or failing the above, just bang her.


AJay

I think theres a very short time window in which you can establish a more-than-friends sexual vibe with this girl. From what I've read so far I don't fancy your chances much though. IMO so long as this art thing is "who you are" and the primary way you meet women, you will always be the talented boy-best-friend that provides entertainment in between shagfests with other guys.

Take her out, have fun, just go with the flow. And if you like her tell her

I'd reply to that with "there is way too much sexual tension between us for us to be friends" ... is that wrong in terms of your theories?