basically you should always be moving forward.

here are the steps

1: talk/open

2: touch

3: kiss

4: finger whilst kissing (in aproriate location)

5: fuck

the kiss finger fuck has served me well it's very reliable.

as for presuming you can only presume because you don't have enogh information to do anything but simple.

same as poker you can't know they're bluffing you just make a decision based on the information provided.

if you play too reserved in poker eventually your stack dwindles the same is true in seduction eventually you have to bet and when you do you have to be strong with the bet no half assed betting.

is her ear appropriate

jesus, just take her hand and say COME ON YOUR COMING TO SEE MY ERM.... CD COLLECTION... and just walk her where u want to go

THEY ALWAYS FOLLOW

lol.. if you say "cd collection" in a funny ish tone and wink at her.. innuendo! win win win win win win win win win situation

u dont need to wink... wink says I DONT MEAN WHAT I SAY

just smile, take her by the hand UR CUMIN WITH ME...

"where are we going"

i dunno... erm ... i have a hippo giraff in a box... come on ill show u...make it a clearly abundant lie she knows what come next

then just keep pulling... she will follow... if you dont keep walking your giving her the descsion... women love to be lead by men... men are leaders...

women love a man to take control! <end>

So you go straight in for tongues after only knowing them for a few mins!
No way that will work unless you mean kissing on the cheek. It's more appropriate for full on tongues after a bit of kino, flirting, and usually at the end of the night.

I find this whole step thing a bit creepy

what step is fucking in the woods? or anal fucking with a vibe in her pussy?

what step is telling hr you love her and what step is telling her to shut the fuck up or shes over

ye thats a bit weird like

Its happened with a couple girls who are friends of friends, that I've chatted to a lot on facebook, flirted lots with, and most likely told them that when I see them, they're getting a nice big wet kiss.. I don't do it ALL the time, but I ALWAYS kiss at some point in the date

I usually follow those steps naturally they're just for peeps who just don't get it.