There's a section in 'the game' where a guy pushes a girl up against the wall (by the throat or something) and makes out with her which is supposed to send her energy levels through the roof.

I made out with a cool girl tonight but it was a bit boring. Should i be trying to use the concepts from the referance above? Have you suggestions/tips on skyrocketing her energy levels?

The best advice i can give is to FEEL it, be animalistic, grab her head touch her with confidence. If its boring then maybe your kissing the wrong type of woman for you. put your had around her neck, kiss her neck, dont be wimpish when you kiss, all or nothing, let your lust control you.... be a man! But i find its much better when you have a woman who knows how to kiss as well, so pick the right woman for you!

AJay

Ajay has a point about compatibility as I find i just dont like the way they kiss... However if I find a girl attractive or fun I don't let a little thing like kissing get in the way!

I wouldn't refer it to a girls Energy, think of it more as her interest or enthusiasm. Generally a girl will morror yours (as the guy you should be leading) so if you go in softly so will she, if you go in hard so will she.

What does this mean? Well if you go in softly so will she, it will be a more sedate affair and as a general rule it makes it harder (not impossible) to escalate. If however you go in a little harder (my personal favourite) by either pusher her up against a wall and going in fast and hard kissing her mouth, neck and face (I said kiss not lick) with playful biting of the neck earlobe and lips, hands all over the hips, arse, thighs, abdomen and back she will reciprocate and because it's fast and naughty you can escalate to sex.

I also use kissing to let her know where this interaction is heading (to the bedroom) because if we're all over each other then it's on so all you need to do is say "shall we get a taxi back to yours or mine?"

Compatibility is not the problem, i do find her fun, attractive and we had really good sex last week. Hence, I blame it on me.

I just found a good post on going slow, then anamalistic, then back to slow and on and on. How you warm them up is 99% of the battle - PUA, Mystery, Amog, Seduction Pickup Routines

You shouldn't be doing stuff like this according to a set pattern or list of steps, it really needs to be coming from some desire inside. Do what you want to do and it'll be more fun.

The sex is good but the kissing is bad. So at some point the fun kicks in. Is that what you are saying?

Is this because she gets more passionate or because you do?

Do you think she thought the kissing the other day was boring? Who initiated that kiss and why? Who sustained it or restarted it and why?


People are just stabbing in the dark (maybe try this with your girl) with this little information, more data please.


Peace,

kowalski

i always pin girls to walls... its a control thing

they love it

I have taken my influence from Phil and K on this site regarding being dominant with women
and it fuckin WORKS
They all love it deep down, being controlled and pinned up and kissed hard and fucked hard

As for OP question.. did she find it boring? kissing for too much extended periods of time with no kino escalation at all is boring.. start feeling her body, let her feel yours, soft and slow, hard and rough, enjoy it, feel her lips (both sets)

My tips for good kissing would be:

Don't go overboard on the tongue use it a massager in rythym with everything else your doing, good kissing has a rythym which can be speed up or down, or be hard and soft. You should be controlling this and flipping between them. When soft, body and lips are highly relaxed, you can hold you lips barley touching for multiple seconds, stoke face or body lightly gaze into eyes ect. Speeding up and changing , you can tighten muscles, become animilistic, bit lips, push her head away between kisses with your forehead while pulling her body in towards you tightly, use both hands with conviction on her ect. Sounds a bit weird typing this, but hopefully you get the picture.

Kowalski is right, the energy levels were much higher last week. I think it was because it was in total privacy. The boring kissing was in public area. When I'm with a girl in public, I'm concerned about making her look like a slut so i hold back. For some reason, (possibly a sticking point) I hold back too much on Kino also. This makes the situation a little awkward which i now think is the basis of the problem.

So, when I meet up with the same girl for a drink, should i go all out with the kino. And in the bar or pub or wherever, should i increase do this kissing stuff or is that for private only?

im too busy kissing to be thinking about kissing.