Hi all!

I think it might have been David Ds stuff where I read it, but the general idea was to not give in too easily, you know, be rare, hard to get.....yet we often see threads about trying to get F-Closes, K-Closes straight away!?

Do both work!?

Yep. In fact I'm not that bothered about long term stuff now, because I'm not after a girlfriend and it's just too time consuming normally. The thing is most of the older stuff like Dave D seems to forget the simple fact that girls like sex, and it's perfectly possible to get makeouts and lays without a big long set list of mind games.

cha, you are looking at a magic pill about either being evasive and mysterious, or confident and upfront. You need to be you and do what you find most comfortable. If however you are comfortable with yourself in that you don't take rejection personally, then there is no harm in being upfront.

Both ways work for different reasons and different people. I like to be upfront. I continue to be upfront even in a relationship, I am the same, before during and after.

There is no game, you just have to have fun...