Hey first off let me begin by saying I am totally helpless with women I have no idea with what to do or say so be nice with the advice I am about to ask for please . A couple of nights ago I went out to a rave with some friends etc... I got chatting to a few girls and got a few numbers/blackberry pins I have no idea how I managed it lol anyway there is one girl whos pin I got shes roughly an 8 I wanna chat to her but have no idea what to say can anybody help me out? would appreciate it.

Thanks in advance.

and so it begins. Just carry on visitin here, readin posts, it will click

just say, hey hows it goin! then let the rest go from there

Hey thanks. What if she doesn't remember me? and I find it hard to make conversation with girls I find attractive. I know I am over thinking it all I just can't help it lol.

If she doesnt remember you then tell her "what? You were all over me last time!! Ah well, your loss babe" wink, smile & pretend to walk away.

If you walk away without her actually stopping you then come back to her in 10 minutes as if you have never met, & try again...but better.

She may remember you she may not remember you, it must be one or the other so it may seem like there are only two possibilities, but there aren't. There are infinite possibilities. What if she thinks you are someone else, what if she has gone blind in the meantime, what if next time she sees you you are pinching another girl's bum or have a mouth full of pickled egg or all at once?

You can't work it out in advance.


You will think about it, it is important to you. When you notice yourself thinking about it though, you can then turn that attention to more useful things. Either thinking about and #occupyNYing yourself with other things or by considering why you are thinking about it and examining whether those thoughts are helpful, realistic, and stuff like that.

If you were to be having thoughts about what will happen, then notice yourself thinking about it, then move to considering something like my first paragraph in this post then you would start to learn things about yourself that will be releasing for you.


Peace,

kowalski

You need to start valuing yourself more before others will start valuing you. You see its never about what to say to a girl, it’s all about how to feel.
If you feel as though you are inferior to a woman then you are inferior to that woman. If you don't feel this then you are not. The best advice I think for anyone new to this is to BUST BALLS....... tease woman to the end of the world and back, be emotionally unhinged.

Obviously it is easy for someone to give advice like this, but so hard to just click your fingers and implement change. I think it’s best to realise now that this will be a long process full of ups and downs, be strong, be cool and just be true to yourself.

AJay

This video help me a lot... Maybe it will help you

Good luck :-)

[url]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cm4Y4-drfSo[/url]

i hate how they use a girl! GIRLS DONT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT!!!!

everythin she says is shit, SHE IS CLUELESS!!! these 2 are clueless.

all she says is I LOVE THIS WHEN YOU DO THIS!!

makin idiots wanna do it. RANDOM COMPLIMENTS THROO THE DAY DO NOT WORK!!!! AHHHHH this is frustrating.

all texts shud be fun!!!

why are they giving advice on texting a girl ur already fucking???

they both look nervous!! I HATE THIS PUA COMMUNITY!!! annoys the fuck out of me.

he is a gimp

she doesnt know what she likes... she is a girl