...becoming an alpha male??

How crucial is it do you think?

Personally I think its central.

And i dont mean the macho alpha male which is trying to convince others they are the alpha male, because thats not alpha male. Becoming an alpha male is the state of your mind, not your appearence. If you sort out your state of mind then your appearnce will sort itself out.

There are so many ugly, poverty stricken guys out there who dont even know about the PUA world, and yet they get girls left right and centre simply because they have this horrific amount of self confidence and self esteem. And of course self esteem is one of the defining atrributes of an alpha male. They dont act, or know they have to be an alpha male; they are alpha males.


If you do not agree with this, then my question is:

What do you think is actually key to becoming an excellenet PU artist??

no there isnt, it does happen, but it isnt in abundance, maybe when you are 15

but this does not happen often.

this said, you are right, your person is SO SO important, being strong of character..

this is equally important of taking care of yourself aesthetically & hygienically

an alpha male...

confident in himself
able to deal with situations in the best way
is likeable
is respected by peers
is loved by peers
is easy to follow because of how great they are
is easy to follow because they make sense

what is not to like about this?
why would a woman, or anyone, not want to be with this?

self ease, and self confidence, are one of the joys of life. its so good to be around people with these attributes. these qualities and characteristics.

any woman, would like this, just the same as i would be friends with someone like this.

alpha male... in the pickup sense is just one of the steps in trying to get into a woman's knickers. do this, to get that. so desperate. so unlikeable. so not what anyone would want in a friend/partner.

i'm sure if you relax, and not get too caught up in what's going on, you will show these characteristics.