before I continue. I just wanted to say I'm number closing quite a bit lately. So thanks for helping me get back on track fellas. I needed it.

One thing that always seems to stump me though is the age thing. If she's a bit older, she'll turn it against you; also (more commonly) younger HBs will always try to use the "old man" card against you. Although I'm 27, I look 22-23 and for ths reason girls a lot younger often give IoIs, but when they find out my real age they run a mile, even with reasonably good game in my opinon. Any tips for keeping the fish on the hook?

thank you again

Never give a straight answer to anything you don't want to reveal (I've heard some guys argue never give a straight answer to a woman ever, which is over the top IMO)

...for you age fits in this category. Make her question a joke; ask her how she knew you looked old for your age. When she asks what you mean, say you're only 15, but she can't tell the bartender or they won't let you in anymore.

If you're not comfortable completely hiding your age from her, later tell her in a short story when she's much more attracted to you and you're building commonalities. Age difference won't matter as much then. Also tell it more as a story rather than a straight answer... makes it more engaging and meaningful.

This is only about what you think is acceptable.

When you are asked your age you obviously worry that it will disqualify you, this will come across and affect what happens next. I don't give a shit about age difference, because of this when I tell people my age they don't give a shit either.

It is all in your head.


Also, "never give a straight answer to anything you don't want to reveal" is wrong. That just makes it worse. Telling someone who is shy about their age how to go to elaborate lengths to enable them to remain shy about their age is bad advice. Also, why be a dick to someone else, by not giving a straight answer, just because you have a hang up about your age? It isn't their fault.


Peace,

kowalski

But not giving a straight answer is a part of flirting. I mean as long as you are doing it for being playfully rather then for the reason of hiding your age.

he doesn't seem or mention being shy, he mentions they're blowing him out when he's saying his age. Either don't mention it, or if they ask don't give a straight answer and make it into a joke, or try and hold a solid tone like you say.

If he worked at a wal-mart or a mcdonald's or something and didn't want to mention that to the girl because they've been consistently brushing him off, would it be wrong to say that he's a butane lighter repairman just to get a laugh out of it, and earn a little bit more flirting? He's not being misleading or being shy about it, he's avoiding a problem that other girls have had with him and taking a negative interaction and turning it into a positive one showing that he can be funny.

I don't see any difference between the two.


...and like I said, if this is happening early in interactions before he can build enough attraction, then come back to the age difference once she's more comfortable around him later. He doesn't have to hide his age, but he doesn't have to comply to her request for an answer at that moment either.

Older: "Oh man, you must know my pet dragon ernie, he's like 96, about your age innit"

27 is perfect age unless you're Amy Winehouse! All ages wiiling to fuck a 27 year old. Problem maybe in your head or girls are just being douches (maybe tell them that)

Whether he mentions it or not is irrelevant, it is what is actually happening.

He never mentioned being uncomfortable about his age either, but you did. Being uncomfortable about saying his age, being shy about saying his age. They are the same thing.

I was 27 once and pulled girls much younger and much older and didn't have to hide my age from any of them. Many other guys on here have been or are in similar positions and have not had any issue with age difference.

Therefore, we have significant personal evidence that means we know that age does not have to be an issue. Therefore, it must be something else and the best candidtae is the OP's attitude.


I know McD's workers and ASDA employees who get laid.

Just to get a laugh out of it is fine, of course, but you aren't suggesting that. You are suggesting he do it to hide the thing he is embarrased of. Different.


Stop thinking in PUA. Who is complying? Who cares. No one can "build attraction" you have been mislead.


Peace,

kowalski

You need to get in there first and use it as a disqualifier e.g. "hey youve got really good genes, I bet your mum/older sister is really hot, you should arrange for us to hook up". Once they bite you keep laying it on with stuff like "not sure a young girl like you could cope with the pleasure an experienced man like me can dish out" etc.

BTW I'm nearly 20 years older than you so you need to get some sense of perspective.

its not to do with ur age... young girls like older guys, i fucked loads