I facebook closed a barlady the other day.

Was spontaneous, had no intention of gaming her.

I went into the bar with my buddy (male) and the same barlady that served me a week previously (romanian HB6), was there. I suppose I kinda already had the preselection card going as I'd previously been there with an Italian HB7 and (coincidentally) a fellow Romanian HB9.

While I was taking a drink with my buddy, a guy approached and asked for a euro to buy a beer (in Italian obviously), I responded (roughly translated into English) "how the fuck can you ask me for a euro when you're wearing a massive gold necklace and 4 gold rings?" he was drunk and continued to talk to my buddy. The conversation between them seemed to be reasonably diplomatic and so I turned to the bar lady and she said to me in english that she wants to improve her english and she was asking me if I am a teacher etc... I complimented her on her english and her italian (she's romanian after all) and we were talking with a little mild flirting. No mention of anyone up to this point.

My buddy needed to go and so since I didnt have time to properly game I asked for her facebook, she wrote down her real name and the name she uses on facebook, saying she uses her husband's name.

Now, the woman is def. interested. Whether or not she would do something (hypothetically speaking), your guess is as good as mine.

But I really think that she wouldn't have given it to me if she was happy and all.

I'm not judging, nor asking to be judged. But what would you do?

Be honest please chaps.

I never messed with married before.

No gaming someone's wife is against moral principles. I got an impression that you don't have any such intentions either.

She probably just exchanged FB as she might want an English teacher. The fact she was so open about husband indicates you may have mis-read situation. If she had wanted secret liasonce she would have given you number.

Morally I tend to avoid taken girls nowadays

What do people mean when they say I was gaming her, I didn't have a chance to game her fully etc ? Always had a problem with this? Do you just mean talk/flirt?

Swingers

AJay

okay, so I didn't quite get into comfort stage (I try to adhere to the mystery method), I don't think misread it so much. She gave some IoIs, and as for the swinger joke, you'll be amazed how common that actually is out here. so your guess is as good as mine.

So, after thinking a bit more about i'm probably going to leave. Women do like to be "lead" and they do like to have "plausible deniability" (it wasn't "her" fault she fucked another guy, it "just happened"), but I think if she wants to end the relationship, it's on her. Better not to be a part of it.

Anyway, a useful sarge for building confidence after a recent setback. so it served a purpose. I'll keep in touch with her and see what happens

I knew a guy who got loads of married girls before, he said on a number of occasions the husband would find out and ring his mobile and give him grief .

Personally it depends on the circumstances, though bear in mind that most hot girls has some guy she's seeing.

Apparently, wedding rings are good pulling props.

I spend a lot of time in hotels (with my job), staying in the same kind of hotels that people who are away with work stay. If a woman is away with work and just wanting a bit of fun, then a wedding ring on a guy says, "I am not going to call you next week".

I point to the example given in the film "Up in the air" (with George Clooney)- it's extremely accurate IMO.

As for targeting a lass that's taken- either married or LTR, I personally would be extremely uncomfortable doing so. But if she makes the first move...

She's going to take you home, drug you, and cut out 1 of your kidneys.

Can we get de-listed by Google again I know I’m no saint but I’m disappointed by the wave of new members. Quit hitting on married women, the chances are using PU skills you’ll succeed so unless you’re going to make a relationship out of it all you’re doing is fucking someone’s life up. The country is full of single girls begging to be fucked.

this is true, there is a guy out there who is like you... he managed to bag a girl

and your learning how to manipulate this guy out of a GF! u dont need another guys girl. u shouldnt be that desperate.