I've just been in an amazing 4 month fling. From the beginning it has been tagged as an open relationship which was cool at first but as usual, she got more attached, and wanted an exclusive relationship. Sex has been getting better and better and i've been blowing her mind alot (despite a brief mishap a few weeks ago which some of you guys might have read).

She was recently in a serious relationship and got screwed over by some guy who cheated on her.

She feels that she's into me more than I'm into her (true but i like her alot), and that I'm going to let her down really badly. So she's protecting herself from that. She also wants a long term exclusive boyfriend which she now knows she can't have with me.

I've done stuff such as make her jealous and neg a bit too much which i think had a negative impact.

So now she's ended it. My plan was to make the sex so good that she wouldn't leave but that seems to be failing... Any idea's on how to keep this girl? I do like her alot and don't want to loose her

either commit or let her move on. shes given you 4 months of great sex... you win here. stringing her along more is cruel IMO.

So now you realise where you fucked up are you going to do it again? Don't neg or make them jealous when you're up to the nuts with them because they tend to fuck off what can I say girls are weird like that.

No shit.

Yes, but this is a site for adults only, when you qualify I'll help.

OP,

Take advice on how to be adult from adults only. Some will never qualify and we will never let them 'help'.


Peace,

kowalski

UH OHHHHH!!!!!!!! the same fatal mistake i have made b4

u cant make sex that good she dont wanna leave

eventualy she will want affection that bad that she will turn to another guy for it. u pushed her into another guys arms.

sorry mate but u need to learn from this U DANG FUCKED UP and she is gone

get ready for a few months of feelin shit coz u liked this girl & she has spent a few months tryin to get over u & ur now gonna have to get over her.

after it u will open up to someone. This is a lesson u needed to learn in otder to make it right with the right girls another day


( u never know tho she may give u a chance, but now she knows she can get power over u by threatenening to end it.... start reationships as u mean to go on mate... but i think u shouuld just have the relationship... get hurt, learn then move on, thats life)

dont be so condescending knave, hes just being that same control freak kid we all have been

agree with phil.

Be genuine,

Jamm.

Why not have a break for a few days a week or something from her see how you feel. You're now feeling the loss of her and it almost sounds like you wanna walk after her and say hey wait up! You always knew you could have had her but now you feel that maybe you can't.

Now look if you like her a lot still in a week why not go for the LTR? Sometimes I think some of us get to into being a PUA and abundance that when a genuinely good option for a LTR comes up we ignore it. Besides whats the worst that could happen? You just dump her again and shes gone. Where as if you do nothing she could be gone anyway.

Just don't go chasing after her straight away and fuck it up lol

oh no

i know erm
why dont you have a relationship with her?
why does everyone think once you commit to a relationship thats it thats you 2 for LIFE
relationships last 1 week, 1 month, 6 months, 1 years blah blah
if you like her that much why dont you just hvae a relationship together, see how it works out, if it doesnt then move on
whats so bloody difficult about that?

I like the last 2 posts guys, i think your right. I'm back with her again. I like the point of going for a relationship even like refl says, it lasts for 1 week... Keep it nice and simple!!