I constantly hear of this phrase being thrown around, "dump this bitch, there's an abundance out there..." "Don't bother trying to fix that, plenty more fish in the sea" etc It's such a phoney PUA mantra made to make guys modify their concepts of reality, but the fact remains MEN are the abundance in my experience.

Call me a negative prick, but when I go out in my hometown, the ratio really is 5:1 Guys to Girls. Because of this, it's often dog eat dog. Even the most plain-jane looking mediocre girls can have drinks purchased for them all night, have morons fight over them and just get treated with princess-reverence because they possess a pussy. Cockblocking and AMOG'ing are rife due to a severe supply and demand issue. If every guy had a different unique girl he could go for, I think there would be much less in the way of trouble. Say I leave a girl at the bar to go take a piss, chances are, when I return they'll be a shithead trying his luck.

Sure, if you're good at this game you can separate yourself from the pack and have multiple women on the go. But it doesn't change the fact that the numbers are in their favour, almost always?

It's not just my town, I'm fairly well travelled, and there are not THAT many exceptions to this rule. Sure, big cities have way more women, but it's relative and they often also have many more men to again, unbalance the equation.

Statistically, England is at least 50% women. So, it begs the question, where are they?

Many prestigious clubs in major cities now operate entry on the basis that you must enter with ladies in your group, no all-guy groups. All girl groups are always encouraged, usually getting extreme discount on admission too.

I hear arguments that women get just as horny as men, yet if that were true, why do they not come out in equal numbers on any given Saturday night? I am sure they love to dance like goofballs, laugh and lose all inhibitions just as much as us.

Hoping someone will enlighten me. Don't get me wrong, I'm doing okay recently, but I can't help but feel if the odds were in contrast, stacked in man's favor in the modern nightlife realm, then my simcard would be utterly full with horny girls constantly striving for my attention. For those of you that have that, I'm fucking jealous.. Ugh I've gone off on a tangent.

Fact is if a girl wanted to pull, they could do it much more easily. However, they don't. The amount of men that girls sleep with is very similar to the amount of girls that men sleep with...go figure it takes 2 to tango. Women are usually much more picky..it's called female choice in evolutionary biology terms.
One thing some girls will do especially when younger is go out and kiss a lot of different men all in one night - I don't find that a particularly attractive quality in a girl but many do it.

I think this is a British thing though, all the classy girls don't tend to go out on the town as much. If you're near where I live town is full of slappers on the weekend.

Cos they're bored of coming out into a cockfest environment where they get hit on by ugly dudes.

Stop statistically analysing your environment around you, adapt and survive to what you feel is best for you.

AJay

Hi Alpha - Thanks for the reply.

I realise it did not originate from PUA, but it's so overused and thrown about almost as an automated response to anyone in distress, losing a girl or acting needy. Quality hot girls are not all that expendable, if you've got yourself a good relationship, great, fight to make it work rather than give-up and fallback on the fish in the sea paradox.

Moving is a consideration, but I have to take into account if the grass really is greener? Is it all in my head? If I were to move I would ideally need to lock down a visa and job beforehand to go to Aus/Canada ideally. Moving up north does not inspire me, I do not understand people easily once I get past the Midlands - Ha.

I do not frequent prestigious clubs either, but it was more to further prove my point. If the ratio were the other way around, can you imagine a club that limited the amount of girls that got in? Wouldn't there be feminists bitching about equality? There just ARE more guys than girls out on the town here generally. It is a measure put in to aid the balance.

Unfortunately, I work in I.T so it is slim pickings in my industry, as it comprises mainly of young Asian male professionals. I do go to the gym, where there is sometimes opportunity, however I'm usually in the weights area which is segregated from the stretching mats and dance classes. I do an evening class once a week at a college which gets me a few contacts. You're right though, I do need to broaden my scope if I'm bitching about lack of opportunity. I could do with being better on the dance floor, so Zumba or Salsa could be beneficial (if a little gay). Oh well, discomfort equals growth and all that.

It was a bit of a Monday morning rant, yes I can fabricate excuses as why I don't get laid as much as I desire. I can blame uneven numbers, I am sure I could twist stats to suit any argument, for or against. - but you're right, it all lies within me to put myself into more fruitful positions. I do still find it difficult when sober to conjure the balls and force myself to ALWAYS approach. Alcohol and the clubscene are certainly a crutch, but hey, practice makes perfect.

Adapt and survive? I'm not on a desert island. Care to elaborate?

Else it just portrays you as someone who dropped into the thread, typed something 'deep' and ambiguous that leaves us even more confused. Sorry, but it is hard to decipher your meaning in such a statement when it's that vague.

Western misconception.
Try going to South America and explaining that one.

al_phaD has given you some excellent advice.

Your post is full of negative bullshit, for fucks pull yourself together man or fucking do a Gary speed.

Re-read some of Alpha's comments let it sink in, something has to change mate I don't think I've ever seen so many limiting beliefs on one post.

How many women are in the street right now? Exactly. Pussy is everywhere.

If you are worried about another guy taking your girl, you're got some distance to go yet. A girl won't throw herself at another guy if you're acting confident and keeping yourself a challenge. The only danger should be from a guy with better PU skills. Guys that are good with women represent such a small percentage of the male population you should safe on this front most bars/clubs have high percentages of guys that are fucking hopeless with women, even the alpha ones. From my experience I’d say most guys can't approach women unless they've had several pints/joints/lines inside them. They then proceed to fuck it up because of the pints/joints/lines inside them. Then you have the ones who've read ‘the game’ approach women but whats coming out of their mouths doesn't match what their body is doing and they fuck it up.

Like I wrote Alpha's advice is good join/do an activity with a high percentage of woman reading between the lines it sounds like you need to be around more women anyway. I realised this when I first started so I joined an exercise group at my gym, I was the only guy in the room, it felt a bit odd to start but having 15 HB jumping around in there sports bras, soon changed my frame. There is nothing gay about F closing two of them.

If I were you I’d make this something I do this week because once you’re around women they will be more than eager to set you up with their hot friends if they see you as a confident guy.

Okay Monday you can be forgiven for ranting but there is no need to chase pussy its everywhere.

Fact: woman are in abundance, all the fucking stats in world won't change that.

Boom! read knave's post again.

are you

a) serving at Her Majesty's pleasure?
or
b) living in Alaska?

look out the window, man

Then move.

Personally I cant remember the last time I went out anywhere where the men significantly outnumbered the women. Also you have to remember that attractive women tend to move to larger towns and cities in order to stand a better chance of bagging a successful guy, this is well documented social phenomena that occurs all over the world. London for example has around 30,000 more single women than single men.