sometimes, u have a situation... and ur trying to work with the tools u have

but maybe ur trying to use a spoon for a screwdriver... there is only so much time & effort u can put in before realising its a ball ache

wen just getting a screwdriver is the same messaging her.

"If you give me ur number, i guarantee in 6 months time you will be telling your friends how in love with me you are"

ok ok. U gotta prove me wrong. Make me correct. Phil stop showing me how good u are im not interested.

this by the way, was not what i told u to reply, this is a question

i told u to say

Dont you worry ur little self about that, ill look after u x

not directly followed up with

SO WILL U PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE MEET ME SO I CAN SHOW U HOW COOL I AM.

do u understand the difference in meaning between my response & the one u put??

ye i know u didnt tell me to put that but its what i went with. it felt right at the time.

i dont agree with ure extreme view on what i said but i get ure point.

So what u tellin me phil? Dont ask questions? Dont ask them if we're meetin?

Im shit with women mate. Well i wouldnt say im shit. I just need some experience. Like if i fuckd other birds i prob wud of handled this diff than i did but ki not fucked a new bird in 2.5 years im rusty and proper dog shit. I was never good anyway. Was meant to be goin round birds house tonight who i met online but that fell through. I just need to keep plowing. So many birds out there it will pick up pace in no time

when she says, Where would you take me if i let you.

dont take that as a No... if she is responding, she clearly interested.

putting question marks n stuff. u already asked her out... dont keep asking

its difficult over a forum mate & its also not an overnight job, maybe at some point ill meet u & bestow some wisdom

cheers bro.

I think you may have subcommunicated too much interest prior to seeing that much interest from her, meaning she has all the power in the interaction. You're firing her with questions, she's giving fairly short answers. You write 5 lines, she writes one. She's enjoying your attention, that's all.

Also, if she declines an offer to go out, and does not offer an alternative (especially two times), then I'd say you're being prick teased. She's fuelling her ego at your expense. A few weeks ago I asked a girl over to a little house party I was doing and she answered "te lo faccio sapere" (I'll tell you... as in "I'll tell you later") Needless to say I didn't bother trying again. Instead, I asked a girl for a drink last Sunday, and she said she couldn't but "am I free on thursday?" To me that says interest.

Sorry to say it, but I'm gonna answer "no". Or at least, she's not interested enough to make it worthwhile you going to all that trouble when you can find other girls that would love to reciprocate the dialogue (or semi monologue in this case).

That said, it looks like you've got fairly good skills, so go and put them to use on a more worthwhile target.