You are certainly right there, one should stay totally not affected by this regardless of what causes her not to reply. Personally I would rather think that she is genuinely busy however at the same time I'm conscious of the games girls play.

Good post Phil.

It is what it is....no point in reading into things too deeply

Definitely but in the meantime whilst your trying to get there, there's nothing like taking your mind off of things or giving yourself something more constructive to think of

Since I started going the gym, seeing my friends more I have neglected texting girls back as ive been busy...as a result I will get home from the gym/a friends and find that I have several messages from the same girl , the txts from girls would become more needy

I am under the impression that no reply for a period of time is better then a fun filled banter txt at times as girls normally think the worse with regards to this!

maybe, but do u really wanna be activly doin so?

also what if your meeting a girl u really like & u activly wait & they get fed up... ur gonna kick urself.

just be normal! then if they dont text back... just dont be assed, or if u get busy.... text them wen ur not!

simples.

P.S i spent alot of time fucking with girls by text, like texting up untill bedtime, then not textin back to they lose sleep n shit! just social experimentation.

i learned alot about ego, i just realised its a waste of time, ye they like you... but its for negative reasons, id prefer a girl like me now for all positive.

I use to overthink txts but now as im generally more busy I just txt when I have time or can be arsed or just call ( hard to get your tone across on texts and I feel I build more of a rapport when I call girls )