Ok this is gonna be a very important read for all of you.

I remember backin the day, when i used to be textin a girl... back & forth back & forth

then.... no text... OMFG.... re reading my text OVER & OVER worrying about how it was perceived.

losing sleep over it... in some cases sending a stupid long winded message or finding any excuse to text again.

IT WAS PATHETIC.

think about this,

ur sat textin, then half way throo a response ur mate calls u, im outside, we have to go somewer.

later ur out havin a drink wen u realise, shit i didnt actually send that text.

u dont like this girl less.. ur just busy.

When a girl doesnt

TEXT BACK

or

FACEBOOK BACK

its not coz of the message u sent, or coz she just stopped liking u in that second, SHE IS BUSY!!

jesus christ, u need to learn to send a message, then forget about it untill the response coz i remember EATING MY MIND OUT with reasons why they never reply.

then ur texts change unconsciously to needy ones.

dont let texts get u down.... if she doesnt text back! catch up again a week later or somethin. or wait for her to text back.

people dont just go off u in a heartbeat, and certainly not on the basis of a playfull text.

stop tryin to control everythin. Just what will be will be

x

i love u phil. Ure so alpha. I want to suck u and swallow.

but no ure right. U can name and shame me i dont mind (phils post is exactly wot i experienced yesterday and he told me straight)

But she can be Just pretending to be busy or just testing you.

amit do girls actually do that? I dont know.

Av u experienced it for ureself or has soemone told u?

u read too many pua books...

do u honestly think any one (other than a complete weirdo) thinks

Hmmm... i know, ill test him here... see how long he takes to reply! if they do AVOID THEM LIKE THE PLAGUE

or... how is not responding pretending to be busy?? and even if it is, if ur not taking any notice of it, who is she pretending to? herself!

its funny that if a girl ever was playin games with me i wouldnt notice, so her head will get wrapped up in some silly game that im not even playin.

just learn to understand... she is busy.

its like if u text ur mate & he doesnt text back, u dont start gettin the sweats writing about it on a forum do u.

Or panicking coz ur mum didnt responde to ur text as quick as usual.

life doesnt revolve around you... people arent doing

ABC

to make you think / do

XYZ

people are too involved in themselves... as you clearly prove by acting this way

I haven't read a PUA book in ages. What I said is of personal epierence and what I have been told by few female friends. Girls do that so they don't come across as needy.

i dunno then, maybe some people do... i could be wrong

i just wouldnt notice if they did

I agree with a it that some girls consciously withold a text just to gain value/power/hardon/whatever but most girls are just busy

Great post though Phil because when you treat those girls the same as the busy ones it all works out!

Tho if you've got time to sit, send a text then think and worry about it maybe you should be doing more?

not really, u just shouldnt be assed.

if u can get to a point wer u can forget texts... its a big step in progress