one thing i have found that is BRILLIANT for akward situations is call them out
makes them funny

just say,wow this is awkward, say it with a smile

its like if someone says somethin cringe just not sayin anythin is worse u just smile and call them on it and skit them a little bit then move on!

this is SO helpful in awkward situations... plus make them feel comfortable.

this is in any situation not just with a girl

Yes this is what I do.
I never get embarasser any more cos if I do something stupid I just say "oh how embarrasing!" which instantly changes the atmosphhere. Openly acknowledging anything like this disarms it as it jokingly confirms that you are both experiencing the same thing and you are totally ok with it.

I learned this from an extrovert friend i have.

Stating the obvious. Expert game.

am I just negative or was that intended to be sarcastic?

I want my name in purple, like that jedi council fella!

Don't be ruled by such negative emotions Twisted! The real you is just hiding behind the ego. Of course I was being sincere. I love you.

Jaz, you are the first admin ever to become a troll on his own forum!

This explains it perfectly towards the end.
It's known as 'mutual knowledge'.



Ultimately, you both know that a situation is awkward, but by acknowledging the fact, you are letting them know what you know what they are thinking. Thus changing the fact.

I've been talking with more girls on a one-on-one friend basis about stuff they're interested in and gossip and shit, and I can say that most of them fucking LOVE awkward situations that have sexual undertones, but they don't like to reveal it.

(note: this does not include awkward moments with guys who suck up to girls or go with everything they like hoping to be accepted. No one likes to feel like they're on a pedestal if they didn't get there themselves, and looks is the FARTHEST thing any girl worth having around wants to be known for. [self-value/esteem])

the first few times this happened was when I'd get bitching at me while opening, and I'd start calling them out for shit and just let it build and build, and suddenly there'd be a complete turn in her personality and she's asking me who I am and telling me who she is, and verbalize how much fun that awkward tension was. First few times I completely dropped the ball not realizing it was turning her on (or I'd kill the moment by running inside my head questioning WTF was going on), but now I do it all the time and it works wonders. I just like to go out of my way and build and build it.

Break their own self-view and replaces it with yours, and the fucking love it.

sounds cool but i dont have a clue what u just said