Met a lady Saturday night, Emily. She was cool, I was cool it was all cool. The group of work colleagues she was out with were like a pack of rabid dogs. Hard work, but I was ultimatly triumphant in having her dough eyed. Unfortunatly for me (and her) she was being dragged back to her bosses house, as she departed a number exchange occured. I am not really one for numnbers, but being intoxicated and not wanting to cause a scene I obliged.

I could have pursued this and joined the pack but I received a txt from another girl offering me promises of rum and a good night. As she was only but round the corner I decided to take this easier option and kissed the new prospect and dissapered into the night.

Meeting my new girl, what happened from here is uninportant as I am sure you can fill in the blanks. Emily txt me a some point later that night, saying it was nice to meet me and what not. As I was *ahem* occupied, I didnt respond. The next day when I finally turned my phone back on (around 04.00pm) I noticed another txt from Emily, asking me what I was up to this week.

This is where you think I am a cunt - I decided not to respond. Just had other things to do I suppose. Selfish and rude, I know. I never heard from Emily again, so deleted the random number from my phone.

Then today, I got a notification that I had a message on my OKcupid profile. This was the message -

"Subject - Wanker

:0 How can you be on here at all if you dont even fucking call a girl when you get her number? I'm shocked at you Alex! I have people at work asking me if you text and it is very embarising. I sent you a FB message too and you didnt reply! I can cope with rejection, I am not onw of those girls. I actually accept that you may have just wanted to take me home that night so you didnt txt back. I am not angry, just confused. So did you wanna see me again?"

So she really laid into me here. To be honest, it's easy to think this girls a fucking bunny boiler. But at the same time, I suppose I did lead her on? I feel somewhat guilty. So have arranged to take her out Friday night, if she is crazy then I will punch her in the throat and run away. Then again, she could be a really nice girl who has just been messed around by a player.

We shall see.

I've had this before. Like you I replied to appease her; not to get laid but because I don't like pissing people off for over nothing.

They seem to becaome slightly obsessive but not bunny boilerish... usually worth more hassle than it's worth.

I have no plans Friday night. May aswell meet her for the crack.

Unless I get a better offer.....

" I am not onw of those girls."
Clearly she IS one of those girls

" I am not angry, just confused."
She is angry and confused, not a good combination

You say that you were intoxicated. Maybe your bunny boiler radar was off that night?

See her again if you want to, but don't if guilt is the reason for doing so

Funny it reminds of the film he,s not that in to that much, on the other night it painted women simalar to the woman you mentioned.

Where the women got upset when the date did not bother txting or ringing and they kept checking their phones to see if the dude txt.

The male lead kept explaining to the female lead that you could not get the guys she was dating to contact her again that if he is into you trust me he will contact you if not you been dumped!.

I thought that you wernt bothered about her feelings was very impressive most guys would be the opposite.

I'm not a total cock. I hate to feel I've led on women, I'll show this girl a good time.

Moral of the story, dont give out your number unless you mean it. I'm breaking my own fucking rules here.

u wer just busy, end of...

i had myself questioning myself about LEADING on girls for ages, then i realised,

u dont owe them fuck all, as long as ur not intentionally not texting back to be a cunt, then ur not

ur living ur life, she wants to be in that life... she needs to deal with how u deal with situations.

some girls feel the need to get any reaction rather than none so they cause conflict, she is one of them

do not make this girl ur GF!! she has no other outlet of emotion.

if u really dont wanna be a cunt, dont fuck her under pre-tense, wen ur just gonna fuck her off.

There will be no pretense. Trust me.

Besides, did I mention she has a banging body?

Do you know me at all?

...6 months later

Jaz : I regret to inform you i am resigning as site admin as me & my beloved wife have come to an agreement that if i go online ever again she will stab me in the eye with my own cock

hate fuck her then forget to call