I am 21, the girl is 19. I met her in march 2011 and fucked her in june 2011 twice. I was in a relationship at the time, she was too.(ye both cheaters). I broke up with my girlfriend in October 2011 and since then i was getting really close with the 19 year old one. Since 20th December until now we have been sleeping at each other's places, the christmas time + new year we spent together travelling across Europe, been skiing to Alps. We both got really close emotionally, one week ago she broke up with her BF. The dark side for my taste is that the girl is the is the 'Friends with Benefits' type. I do not look for this type of thing. (She has been in a relationship for 1 year and during that period was fucking a wide range of friends with benefits).Yesterday i told her that we need to finish this strange relationship because i know what i can expect from her, i just told her straightforward that i am not a friend with benefit type and that i want to avoid getting hurt so i broke up with her. She has a very wide social circle. She booked a ticket to Germany to some 2 weeks hotel party which her friend invited her to(probably one of the guys on her fucking line). When i told her i want to break up from this artificial relationship, she was crying, she was saying that she doesnt want to hurt me and that she feels so selfish and she also blamed me because she does not like what i had told her before ''I can not be serious with a girl like you'. However, yesterday night while she was crying i told her that we would talk about it tommorow. I don't know what to do now. I do want the girl but she is very unfaithul, not suitable for a relationship. And the next concern is that she is also confused about and not really sure if she wants a serious relationship. It is a weird situation. It feels like that I am transforming her biological DNA to become a normal girl with a sense of trust. What should i go guys ?

You already know the answer....... walk away.

Without trust a relationship is a farce

Why waste your time on something that will hurt more than seeing her cry?

You have done the right thing so far. Just stick to what Giant has said.

It really doesn't matter what any of us say. You’re going to follow your heart regardless of how many people tell you to walk away. You already know the logical step is to walk away but no amount of reinforcement will prevent you from following your heart. All I can say is that in future do not have sex with woman who have a different sense of morals like yourself. Good luck, it won't be nice either way.

AJay

we dont live in the movies mate... there is not happy ending here

her current change is to get u to want her again... unless u wanna keep playing a cat & mouse relationship she will cheat on u

she is 19, its what a young girl her age wants to do mate... have fun!

Open relationship? Sounds like a cracking opportunity to me. Having an open relationship is my aim, seems perfect for the lifestyle i want.

Open relationships are great, until you become emotionally invested in somone
then its a world of pain unless youve learned the hardway and/or have the intelligence to walk away from it before it starts

personally i would say - never enter an open relationship with somone you think is girlfriend material as a way of being close to her or trying to get her hooked and pull her into a ltr
it will just lead you 90% of the time into a world of hurt

personally i dont have any open relationships or fuck buddies with anyone anymore - if i meet somone and i quite like them, i`ll fuck them a few times before ending things - im too bored to have it as a regular thing, whats the point - i can fill my bed with random chicks whenever i want

if its somone i see as relationship material i wouldnt enter into an open relationship with them

i certainly owuldnt enter a relationship with a habitual cheater!