Going out just to # close? - Page 2 - Pick-up Artist Forum

Evolver UK · 27-01-2012, 10:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Jaz

This is just wrong.

Firstly, most guys on the board know I am generally against the whole "number close" anyway, but in this instance you actually admit you have no intention of ringing them. So what is the point? You are indeed getting validation from this pathetic task just to boost your own fragile ego, leading on the girls you close, if they like you at all (they probably dont). But more importantly, I would say you ARE indeed cheating.

Unless your "girlfriend" knows about this, you are going behind her back and I would put it you that given the right women you would sleep with her. How would you feel if your girlfriend was doing this?

Selfish, manipulative, needy, insecure, you are the worst type of man.

I defend this community; I always like to think that we promote honesty and authenticity. So when a guy who lives in abundance picks women to commit too. He is loving, honest and FAITHFULL. After all he is confident in his decision making and has selected his mate from millions. That is IF he wants a girlfriend. If not, play the field but do so with honest intent.

Do the right thing, end things with your GF (hardly a proper relationship anyway). And do this thing properly. You have allot to learn.

I haven't been doing this... Your right though I would be hurt if I found out my gf was going round with the intention of getting numbers.

I agree with you on the honesty and intent within the community - something which I always tried to do all my life. This community and this forum have been great and I have been working on self development much more than picking up girls.

My focus needs to be on being more talkative and social with girls and guys everywhere I go, enjoying it, and if anyone asks yes I have a girlfriend.

Jaz · 27-01-2012, 12:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Evolver UK

I haven't been doing this... Your right though I would be hurt if I found out my gf was going round with the intention of getting numbers.

I agree with you on the honesty and intent within the community - something which I always tried to do all my life. This community and this forum have been great and I have been working on self development much more than picking up girls.

My focus needs to be on being more talkative and social with girls and guys everywhere I go, enjoying it, and if anyone asks yes I have a girlfriend.

You can work on your social skills no doubt. But "pick up" is not for you when you have girlfriend. Invest the time you spend on pick up on your girlfriend, I imagine it is hard enough only seeing each other so infrequently.

My honest opinion is that is not a proper relationship you are in. I fear it's future is fragile and one or both of you are going to get hurt. I hope I am wrong. Good luck.

Jaz · 27-01-2012, 12:20 PM

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Originally Posted by GenePoole

Not promoting anything, just saying that it's difficult to actually reveal your agenda sometimes and be honest...that usually comes a few days later.

"I'm here for a good time, not a long time"

An old friend used this to girls he just met all the time. Crude as it is, I feel it is pure in its intention. Needless to say, he was a proper player and women fucking loved him.

If you find yourself promising the earth, you are doing it wrong. Keep it simple because there are plenty of fish in the sea.

Maxemillion · 27-01-2012, 05:35 PM

Feel like Jaz is in a bad mood, hope ur alright Jaz. Personally I dont think Evolver is scum for just wanting some practice, but yeah he may want to call some of these numbers. agree once every 2weeks is a sketchy relationship anyway.

Snake Eyes · 29-01-2012, 05:11 PM

I agree with Jaz. This is wrong.

The whole practice argument is wrong also e.g. like this or if people practice dates etc with girls they're not really into just to hone their PUA skills. Firstly, it is a bit mean. Secondly, it is not even the same as the real situation as you have nothing on the line! The anxious feelings you have to deal with, with a fit girl won't be there so it's not even a practice at all. You just get good at charming birds you don't really want to pull. Great, real good skill that!

This is how I'm feeling at the moment. I may have gone quite far in the other direction recently, but that's because I'm intent on consistently pulling girls that make me go weak at the knees this year and settle for nothing less.

nova · 29-01-2012, 07:15 PM

By all means go out and socialize and bolster your social skills with guys and gals. I'm in a relationship and love doing this. If you get on with them and want to hang out, then exchange numbers, otherwise what's the point?