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Default where do most of you chat up women? - 27-01-2012, 08:49 AM

I ask because it seems like most do it in bars/clubs.
I find this the hardest place to get anywhere with women, ie cold approaches.
If I can talk to them in a social setting, friends of friends, similar hobbies that you meet them through, standing next to them at the bar while waiting to order a drink then I have no problem at all but just walking up to people in a bar seems so unnatural.
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Default 27-01-2012, 10:35 AM

cold approaches are the hardest at bars, and something I've yet to get down consistently. But really, anywhere you go is fine. Me? School is where the most of it happens, same with bars, stores, friends of friends, etc. I don't have time to dedicate to going out 'sarging' or whatever, so I just incorporated pickup into my daily life whenever I see fit. Usually it's just friendly conversations and I don't want to take it any farther than that, but thats just fine as well.


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Default 27-01-2012, 11:47 AM

Well I primarily like dark parks and alleyways...

But alternatively going to fitness classes like yoga and Zumba (yup Zumba is awesome for it) and also Salsa classes. That's great for socializing etc...

I don't have to many problems in bars though, tbh I have most of my success there...


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Default 27-01-2012, 12:25 PM

I flirt all day long or whenever the opertunity comes up.

Mainly however, my game is all bar and club as it really is the only time of the week I can "let my hair down" and have chill out.

(rest of my week is work, training, gym and sleep)
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Default 27-01-2012, 02:44 PM

Same as most of the above really pubs,clubs,house parties.
Tho i am trying to do a bit of day game here and there and i have chatted to a few women in the library.
My mates tattoo parlour is also a place ive realised is a wkd place to meet hot women and is something i aim to further exploit over then next lil while


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Default 28-01-2012, 01:04 AM

Im the same as lucidfer i go about my business & let the interactions happen naturally & smoothly. This way it doesnt look like your trying hard to acheive some kind of outcome & people actually do like talking to you when your a friendly bubbly interesting confident person who has a positive energy.

I talk to everyone & i absolutely love daygame cos im going about my busy life & taking the initiative when possible to appraoch.

The other day i took a number from a girl who i wouldnt normally have looked twice at simply cos she was so nice to talk to & the more we talked the more her fuckable ratio went up.

I had meeting with the super hot new business advisor about a local anti-drug campaign idea i have, anyways the convo turned sexual not totally just every few minutes a sexual reference would pop up, i cant remember who started it but she mentioned something about sex education & i said about having had loads of women but now i only go for high quality (to see if she would start qualifying herself) i asked her age & she is 26 like me i tell her she looks much younger she said "its the small boobs isnt it" i laughed & told her boob jobs are all the rage now you should get one, then i told her to stop (we were now walking) & lowered my head level with her boobs with a serious face on and inspected each of them one by one & said "no actually you dont need fake ones they are perfect" with a wink & smile. Lots of ioi's so i thought it was a winner but when i ased if her bf would mind if she gave me her number she laughed & said yes he would, i was like "cant blame me for trying" she smiled & agreed.

My positive energy & confidence (which i didnt always have) are now allowing me to talk to just about anyone & this is perfect in game for anyone with AA (ideal for daygame my favourite) cos any approach you do is technically just like the last one cos you are just a cool mutherfucker who happens to be really friendly so you wont be worrying about fuck all.


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Default 28-01-2012, 07:42 AM

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Im the same as lucidfer i go about my business & let the interactions happen naturally & smoothly.
Agree.

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I had meeting with the super hot new business advisor
The difference there is that you were already in a meeting with her = no approach. It's the same with if you go on a date from someone online or if you are standing next to someone at the bar...no approach needed and is much easier.
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Default 28-01-2012, 07:43 AM

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Me? School is where the most of it happens,

where do I raise the eyebrow?
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Default 28-01-2012, 01:36 PM

Yea i know it wasnt a proper approach but i still never let the opportunity to pull her slip by. If i never knew about game & how its possible to create attraction no matter what the odds, i probably would have sat talking to her nervously thinking to myself about how she is way outta my league. Whereas now i grab the chance & try since i have nothing to lose.


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Default 28-01-2012, 08:08 PM

Day and night, the opportunities are always there to charm the ladies. I've recently started volunteering at an art gallery in Manchester. That place is a goldmine for hotties!


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