ok so background is ive known this girls been interested for a while but she got with someone i know on my course, about a month and a half ago he broke it off with her. the other week i got really drunk and fucked her but she wanted to keep it quiet, on friday i fucked her again and by sunday she told me shed told this guy, i presume so it wouldnt be awkward between us. so ive seen her twice since and both times it seemed awkward which she texted me about and the second time either she was in a rush or didnt want to talk. today i messaged her on facebook 10 minutes later offline and no reply.

I have deduced this down to 2 things either a she doesnt want to proceed to either have sex or hang out or b i'm getting paranoid.

no its number 3

guy binner her off and knocked her confidence, she fucked you to make herself feel better
she told this guy to try and get him jeleous/back
shes not interested in you

eject and forget about this

this is probly true

she ended up spending the night with me last night, they were never in a relationship in the first place she did guys after him, i think i'm gonna see how it is when i get back from amsterdam.

Look man as long as u dont give a shit, your ok.

You said she has fucked other guys, which apparantly hasnt bothered you!?

Whats the problem then???

I dont know why people even bother posting... when

this....

is always the outcome!


logic never ever ever ever forever & ever amen will trump emotion

phil i dont completely understand your comment, enlighten me.

it mean everyone always writes a comment for advice on stuff with a girl who is dicked u about...

yet nobody ever takes the advice of.. FUCK HER OFF

and people just jump into the rabbit hole. So i dont get if people dont wanna take advice, why they ask

No matter how many times your told "forget her, move on, GFTOW" if u really feel for a girl then no-one will sway your thoughts.

BUT, it dont sound like your really into this chick in which case, enjoy it. I still dont see a problem if it doesnt bother you. Shes just a FB.



Ps. Yes phil i agree with you about people askin questions even tho they wont really listen...i understand cos that was me one day. Lookin back i cant believe what a pussy i was.

thats because its not our job to make you drop her-- you have to choose that for yourself, and you have to realize what's best for you. Other people can suggest it if you come to us for advise, but I don't expect 90% of people to be able to do what's right, even in this sort of community.

If it was easy enough to just flip a switch, the world would be a lot less fucked up in every way possible.

Easy =/= Correct