Hi guys...really like whats been said...although dont understand some of it :S
I do agree honesty is best....but how on earth do you actually word ''I dont want a relationship, just to have fun'' without sounding like you only want to sleep with them!?
Just say it and hope for the best!?
U DONT, U JUST KEEP WITH IT, KEEP GOIN OUT, NEVER MENTION RELATIONSHIP
just keep havin them round.... keep a little distance, dont be all huggy an cuddly.. its simple, let them know what ur about, dont act like ur NOT a player... if they fuck u off SOUND but in my experience u can draw that out for like 3 months - 9 months before they demand u to settle
Loss Of Composure & Self Control Are The Beginning Of A Downfall
Personally I would never give the illusion that something might happen. I make it abundently clear from the very start that I dont want a relationship. I tell girls this. That its all fun and good times but if they want a man they should go else where, I will help them find a dude if they want.
But if a girl cant understand my VERY CLEAR MESSAGE, then she I will cut all contact with her. Not fair on them.
yeah jaz i get what ur sayin... and kind of agree... but where the shoe on the other foot mate, girls will do it to u... thats the reason PUA is here...
i guess my point isnt entirely justified, SHE WOULD IF I DIDNT is infact very childish, but to be fair if she is getting too attached i will let go i wont play games, but BEIN THAT STRAIGHT means u may find urself with less OPTIONS therefore hindering ur game... and mate thats what this is... ur either a winner or a looser in this and i am going to assume ur defo not the latter
Peace
Loss Of Composure & Self Control Are The Beginning Of A Downfall
I TELL girls I am chatting them up now, pretty much all the time. Its honest and I haven’t got the time or inclination to bullshit them. They will be talking to me then I will abruptly interrupt them and say "Just to be clear you understand I am chatting you up right now?" I just want them to acknowledge it. Make no mistake Woman I am here for fun time not a long time. If they get offended by my approach then I'm gone, and I wont curse her name as I do so, I just know I have more options. Indifference. I actually get girls following me around now. Like I will go up to a girl, chat with her, maybe kiss her, Then be like nice to meet you, cheerio!. Then she will be following me around the club for ages. This can get quite annoying.
My favourite bit of the post - brilliant
I can see the summit of the mountain, but also the dark forest in front and the long and winding path to the top. I'm sure many a person here has followed, or is following that path.
"The secret of happiness is not discovered in the absence of trials, but in the midst of them" - Ted Nace