I preach this all the time, but last night was a prime example for me to share.

I was at this party and there was this chick, fairly hot, who was being a real dick. Now all the guys there were fawning over her. She was spouting of all over the place about her ex boyfriend and just being rude to every guy their. Well, I say rude, she was more just patronizing and taking the piss when ever she felt like it. My god tho, you should of seen the way the men were taking this. One instance, she was banging on about how her ex had treated her like shit, and how he was soooo much hotter than any... blahblahblah. And this guy said something along the lines of "Well if you need a shoulder to cry on, I could take you to dinner" she responds with "HA!, I DONT THINK SO!". (BTW if I ever catch any of you boys acting like this dude, I will be the guy at the sidelines laughing my balls off at you)

I dont know who I was more angry with, her for being a dick or him for being a total fucking pussy. Anyway, so later on I'm sat with this guy, just chatting away about something or other, then she comes and sits next to me. She initially starts joining in with what we are talking about, so I think fair enough. Then she goes off on one again about her ex to me and I even havent spoke to her once yet.

GIRL: "Blahblahblahbla"

Jaz: "Can I just stop you there."

GIRL: "Why"?

Jaz: "Because I dont give a fuck about your problems and I havent got time for this bullshit."

-Its at that point where everyone goes silent and the attention is on us-

Girl: "wha?.... who the fu?.."

Jaz: "NO! Who in the fuck ARE you?"

Girl: "Laura"

Jaz: "Well Laura, I'm Jaz. You can wither drop this shit or do one"

She looks at me, then breaks a smile. I smile back because I KNOW the whole thing was a game for her. Regardless, I entered a conversation with her, she played up again a few times but I koshed her back into place. At the end of the night she invited me back to hers for drinks. I declined, as I wasent really that interested and I think I already taught her a valuable life lesson.

Point is this gents. Dont take of a woman what you wouldn't take of a man. Forget all the bullshit mind games, the formula is simple. If she is pleasant, be pleasant back. If she is prick, well you get the picture. If you live in abundance you dont have time for jumping into the negative headspace of someone who wants to fuck with you. Just tell them straight your not going to deal with it, they should change their attitude or get fucked.

Nail on the head mate , respect

That is cool as fuck! Nice one

Agreed, nice one, mind games are the worst i shall remember that one

Nice work Jaz, I've used the line "Pleasure to meet you" many times to bail out from people being dicks but I'll take your advice to heart in case I get one following me... respect.

Presto

Sounds like a life lesson Jaz, not just a PUA 1. I like!

Safe,

Ritz

Really cool post, Jaz!

There is something that is beginning to confuse me as I spend a bit more time on this forums.

Do men really need to be told how to behave in every social situation? Don't we have enough self respect that will dictate how act when people treat us in a way we don't like?

I know Style says to say "Pleasure to meet you" but I think sometimes "Fuck off" is much more appropriate.

And no it is not a game. Insulting behavior is not a game, it is insulting behavior and sooner or later she will act that way again. It is just a demonstration of the kind of girl she is.

I have beautiful sister who respect themselves and would never act like this in public.

It's the same way when you "neg" a girl, you can do it playfully but never seriously.

Yes she is testing you. But not to see if you are a real man. She wants to see if she can get away with it.

If you think tits, pussy and boobs are worth spending time with her all the best!

i love this kind of thing! fair play to you Jaz!
i can't stand stuck up girls who are rude just becuase the think they are better than everyone else. putting them in their place is the best thing, and when done well (like you clearly did) it can turn into major attraction (and it feels great to put them in their place, haha)

Stats i agree with you i hate that behaviour from girls it's just uncalled for.

so the girl is stunned? wow! why did you refuse to go to her place?