You need to stop boxing off hotties as hard and not so hot as easy. It's not as black and white as you make it out. You'd be suprised how little hot girls get chatted up, simply because guys assume this. Be the exception to this rule of thought.

There's nothing wrong in talking to girls you are actually physically attracted to. You will get further if you chat to girls YOU find physically attractive. However at the start of the night, there is nothing wrong with being social, chat to guys, chat to women you don't particularly find attractive etc. This will warm you up.....and I think there is nothing wrong with warm up sets, or getting yourself into a socialble mood.

Hell, I'm not sociable all the time....always happy marky!! No way.... I can be a grumpy old git

Have you tried finding some "power music"?
I have a certain set of songs in my mp3 that can turn my mood around and get me in the mood for sarging and talking to girls and really works.
It is explained more in "The Natural Art Of Seduction" so if thats a pua book that you possess it may worth be looking through it and gettin some tips.

You shouldn't have to get yourself in the mood to do anything, you either wanna do it or you don't. Anxiety is different to this, then you need to motivate yourself. I've found there is a fine line between not wanting to sarge, and making excuses for not approaching. Make sure you don't confuse yourself.

Yeah, I agree with, don't chat up someone you wouldn't wanna fuck (I didn't agree with this in the past, but have changed my view with experience).

If you wanna fuck the fattys then chat them up (which it sounds like you do!). If you wanna fuck the fitties then chat them up. If you wanna get easy lays with the fitties then you need to practice on the fitties and it will become easy. Its not like things being easy happens overnight.

what about warm up and social practice. I thought its supposed to be better to talk to random sets to get experience?

Why practice playing the tuba to learn how to play the trumpet, when you can practice playing the trumpet to learn how to play the trumpet?

i know what you mean now, since sarging part of my brain is asking "where'd those pretty girls go?, find more". So yeh, go for the target and other social practice will happen anyway. New motto "ABG always be gaming"