Hey guys. Right then, My situation is this. I posted on here about the gal a while ago, she works in the busyest bar in my area and ALL the guys hit on her because she is a stright 10 *by the looks of things* i see shes a model....

Iv only spoke her three times...as she is so busy...Basicly the first time, i found out her name and where she come from, second time i just asked how she was and she was giving me good body language signals leaning into me which i havnt seen her do atall to any guys... Then went a couple months i havnt been out went out other week... I was very tired...but i still gave it a go, waited a while to get served, i dont think she has reconised me once when iv gone to the bar....tryed chattin her, by asking whats your fav drink, i noticed she has a drink which was red (a light red, maybe cocktail thing?) i think some guy had got her because some guy was talking to her....my plan was to make her think i was goin to buy her the fav drink...but i would pie her off and not even bother, as a way to show her next time i speak to her..i remembered her fav drink, and also im not like other guys and buying her the drink....But im confused weather she lied because she took a while to answer she kept sayin i dont know, i had to prime it out of her...She eventualy lent on the bar by her forearms and looked back and all the drinks, looked around and said wine....Now this caught me off gaurd and not sure if this back fired because im not sure if the club sell wine...and think she might of said it just because she knee they dont sell it so i couldnt buy her it.....even though i wasnt going to buy her it anyways...but, I went to another club and asked the bar maid, she said they do sell wine (its a liquid club also, but a different area)....
anyways...she asked me to say wat i wanted to order again after this, i dont know wether it was to see if i say and a glass of wine for you...but ye...it was left on that....she also didnt give me my 50p change BITCH lol ....but i just found her on face book, and i want to talk to her, but im not sure if the above situation is a sign not to bother trying...we have lik no friends in commen aswel, it was so random i was on this girls facebook, who i dont know, and just seen her in this pic...and it was her....anyways what you guys think about this, i was going to not add her as a friend and just say, so what is your fav wine? or somthing, maybe she will think thats creepy because she dont remeber me hmmmmmm HEEEELP (:

come on guys, five people have looked at this.....i want some input (:

Jeeze... Well I read it, but it was pretty hard to follow.

Look the difficulties here are that she's an attractive girl, who works in a bar. This presents two problems for you:

1. She will be chatted up routinely by multiple guys every night she's in work - you'll more than likely have blended into everyone else. Lets face it, approaching a bar maid is easy because you've got a reason to go and talk to her in the first place. So every other guy who hasn't seen the knowledge and wisdom you've seen splattered across this forum will have taken their chance to talk to at least one girl on their pathetic non-approaching nights out, even if she is behind a bar.
2. Getting any sort of lengthy conversation going is going to be tough, because she's at work and it isn't her job to stand around talking. Within 30 seconds she's off. And what sort of close are you hoping for??

By all means message her on FB if you've found her. 'Aren't you that girl who works in XXXX' or whatever. Sure ask her about her favourite wine. Personally I'd leave that one well alone now, and just ask her whats up, see if you get a response. If not, fuck it, doesn't matter, move on.

But more than anything - You're in a bar, where I imagine there are umpteen other girls who are attractive, who aren't being approached, and who aren't at work, and who dressed like that tonight because they do want guys to come and talk to them, but who look as bored as that because there aren't any guys with the balls to go and talk to them - and you're getting wound up at the barmaid?

In my finest scouse - get a grip lad!

You should run some game in the bar she works, become the most sociable guy in the bar chatting to everyone and having a good time. This would be good on two levels, one you might meet some hotties in the bar who aren't working, as covert operation said. Secondly, there is a good chance the barmaid will notice how sociable and fun you are and the next time you speak to her you may get a better response.

I wouldn't game in that bar to specifically to get the barmaid though, just try and make her the side product if you know what I mean.

Is her name joanna by any chance? She's the only hot barmaid I can think of that works in liquid?

You should order a latte like you usually at clubs. Lol. She'll remember you after that.

First, what Covert said and second, you think waaay too much about signals and body language that could mean nothing. Start approaching girls and sparking up proper conversations, but stop trying to read them.